"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What made this girl approach me?

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Magnatolia

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I was at a nightclub/bar the other weekend for a guys bday party. I went with about 4 female friends - I'm quite shy when it comes to a bunch of people I don't know so spent some time goofing around with my friends, plus a few of the guys I met chatted to me every now and then.

Then this girl comes up to me and chats. We end up kissing for a while. Thing is I don't even know what I did to make that happen. I know I was drinking tequila for a change so I'm guessing that took the edge off.

Any thoughts? Is it because I obviously had my friends approval?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Magnatolia said:
I was at a nightclub/bar the other weekend for a guys bday party. I went with about 4 female friends - I'm quite shy when it comes to a bunch of people I don't know so spent some time goofing around with my friends, plus a few of the guys I met chatted to me every now and then.

Then this girl comes up to me and chats. We end up kissing for a while. Thing is I don't even know what I did to make that happen. I know I was drinking tequila for a change so I'm guessing that took the edge off.

Any thoughts? Is it because I obviously had my friends approval?
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Maybe the fact that you went clubbing with 4 HOT CHICKS :crazy: :crazy: IT'S CALLED SOCIAL PROOF.....nothing can help you look more appealling to women than to be seen with a lot of attractive women
 
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Social proof, she was drunk, she thought you were good looking. One of those or a couple of those.
 
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this happens to me when I drink a lot. I end up with women and I have no idea how. I think we are C & F when we drink enough Tequila, and we don't even realize it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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this happens to me when I drink a lot. I end up with women and I have no idea how. I think we are C & F when we drink enough Tequila, and we don't even realize it.
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Or maybe they are too drunk to care what you say or look like. :cool:
 
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