"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Would you walk away?

Magnatolia

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Hey all,

This morning I got off the train and asked a reasonably attractive girl how she was doing. She gave me a look, it wasn't a 'f&*k off' look but more like she didn't want to be bothered. She said good and I asked if she had a big night. Same short response so I just kept walking.

When you're in that position, do you walk away? I have a problem with over-analysing peoples body language, facial expressions etc and quite often get the wrong impression that they're not interested.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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tick37

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Ask her whether a bl0wjob is out of the question.
 

tick37

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Maybe you should get off the train or whatever you are doing and get straight to the point like the following:

Excuse me, I don't have time for small talk because I just got off my train, and I've got to get going. I'd like to take you out. Can I get your number?

If she doesn't like it, don't be apologetic for appreciating her beauty. Don't apologize for being a man. Oh well!

Maybe someone else has something better, but that's what I would do.
 

raiz

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Both of tick37's ideas are great, though if you're going to use the first one, make sure that your voice tonality, body language, and eye contact are perfect.
 
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