"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hi all,

I learn best by 'seeing' an interaction.

Like today there was a girl on the train. Guy next to her was chatting away to her and she was laughing and smiling the whole time - and I really wanted to know what he was saying and obviously how he was saying it that was getting that reaction.

Is there any books, videos, etc that actually do this? Like they have a non-staged interaction and show what worked and what didn't?

That's my biggest problem is that I need to have some idea of what to say and how to say it. I just ask how their nights going and take it from there. But then usually unless they give me some juicy tidbit in the conversation i don't know hwat to say next. I know everyone says to practice but I need to know what to practice.

All advice is appreciated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You can go on forums like rsdnation.com and fastseduction.com and read the field reports. You can also find some real cold approaches videos on youtube.
Or even better if you can find an experienced member here who leaves near you and be his wing.
 
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