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I use this popular online dating site from time to time. And so anyway I recognized this b!tch that I had met off there once before, quite some time ago, few years back. We had gone out a few times, and had QUITE a good time, and yes on the very 1st date. So that tells you what type of...

So what's up with that, do you think?? Lately, getting an actual # , that act in itself, hasn't actually proven to be THAT big of a challenge (alright, certainly there have been alot of shoot-downs too - who doesn't have those??) , but the actual challenge for me seems to be making my...

I was to Italy for a few weeks this past summer to visit some family in the town I was originally born in. A couple of my cousins and I drove for the weekend once to the nearest big city which is Naples. There you have club-life, etc, similar to any big city around here or in the rest of...

Ok, so that's either a new high, or a new low, for me. I guess depending upon how you look at it. I personally view it as amazing, seeing as though a couple months ago, when I was still going through that "shy guy" phase I hit, something like this would have been pretty much impossible...

Alright, an odd-sounding title to this thread.......so mock if you will. But, I wanted to bring this up. Observing the "social dynamics" , so to speak, at a club I was in this past Sat.night in downtown Chi-town, I was wondering how most guys view most other guys. Particularly in these...

Out in the field this past Saturday night, at a club in downtown Chicago, I witnessed a friend of mine (who I always suspected might be a DJ in disguise) pull what turned out to be a pretty decent move. This is one I'll probably try on my own another time, and furthermore it worked so...

Yeah so I'm still into the online game ( BUT....... on the other hand , thanks to this community and Style's book , etc, I'm also finally getting back into the real life game), and I've got an ad up on that match site. I've been tweaking it and changing it from time to time. Right now...

I had to take a one-day (same day actually ; I left and returned the same day) business-related trip to St.Louis earlier in the week, and on the plane on the way back I happened to wind up seated (in economy class ; blah) next to a halfway-decent looking lady. She turned out to be a few...

I watched a movie the other night about 9/11/01. I hadn't really seen much of that footage in a while but this film really detailed the actual hijacking(s) themselves, like (judging by the tapes that remain) what actually went on in those planes, who did what, etc etc. I was thinking of...

Punching your weight, as you may or may not know, is a boxing phrase that basically means fighting w/in your own weight class. I was wondering what some other guys' opinions here might be on whether or not something similar doesn't apply to DJ'ing. Think about it this way. If...

The whole "online dating" thing, in my opinion, is generally pretty weak. You just can NOT get the same "connection" with someone, again this is just my opinion, as you can when you do it the so-called "old-fashioned" way; see a female you like, "grab your balls", as a wise man once said...

Alright, spinning off another thread I was just reading (and posting) on........ guys, WERE it legal to hit any age , say there were no sex laws for instance (which I don't think would be a good idea , for obvious reasons; this is just a pure hypothetical / fantasy question) , what...

I was browsing through a Borders today and came upon a little book in the Sociology section called , "Are Italians White?" Being a native-born Italian myself (immigrated here to the States when I was young) my interest was naturally piqued. Thumbing through it, page by page, over in the...

Hi folks. Closed two last night (just number-closes), but the thing is I didn't really use any of the usual and recommended moves. In the first case, we were hanging out at a friend of mine's apartment, and we kept hearing loud obviously female laughter and voices in the hallway...

Alright that sounds strange, I admit. Male beauty tips. But listen, hear me out guys. These are just a few things I was thinking about. After reading a few of the posts here they brought me back to my old h.s. days and I remember that alot of the problem for a lot of guys is actually...

Let me first state one thing; I disapprove of the lifestyle and actions of men known as "pimps". I'm not talking about just using the term "pimp" to describe a player. You know what a player is obviously; you all are players. But I mean a man who really is a pimp. Who gets several girls...

In my first foray back onto the field last Sunday (which I wrote about elsewhere on the forum) , I tactically erred by giving the "premium" I was dealing with truly premium treatment, which I'm sure she's used to. I bought her a rose. Just to be nice. A nice guy who buys a rose is not...

What's your first impression of this scenario: There's a girl that works at a local store, she's only there on weekends. I'd seen her there a couple weeks ago and , although I felt instant turn-on going on, I still was being the guy I've been for the past ... FAR too long... and I didn't...

Hi folks. I'm brand spanking new to all this. My problem is I've been, for about the past 8 or 9 years, pretty much a really "clammed-up" guy. I used to just choke around women, almost completely. The end result was that I ended up coming off as aloof, arrogant, unapproachable...