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DinoCassanova

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I was browsing through a Borders today and came upon a little book in the Sociology section called , "Are Italians White?" Being a native-born Italian myself (immigrated here to the States when I was young) my interest was naturally piqued. Thumbing through it, page by page, over in the cafe area, I was reading about the history of Italian immigrants and immigration in this country, and I learned some things I did not really know (or really ever bother to think of for that matter) before.

I knew that many of the "first and second waves" of immigrants from Italy, and particularly "southern" Italy (which is where the region I'm from is located) , were distinctly unwelcome in the US, in general, upon arrival. This was inflamed by certain notorious cases, such as Sacco and Vanzetti, two Italian-born "anarchists" who immigrated here and then ended up (allegedly) jacking a "paymaster and his guard" for a little over 15 G's and killing the both of them in the process. This case took place in a town called Braintree, Massachusetts. They executed them for it. It was a very big and important sensational case and trial in its time (around 1920). Needless to say it did nothing to help the image of the new Italian immigrants in the eyes of the (predominantly WASP'ish) Massachusetts area and the northeastern seaboard in general. They were viewed, said the book I was reading, as "violent Latins" , a wave of "Latin immigration" bringing with it an alien culture , language, and foreign religious and political beliefs. Strangely the first thing that struck me was how similar that sounds to the way many people on the political Right-wing today view the waves of Hispanic immigration (whether it be illegal or legal). It's kind of like , in a way, the Italians were the Hispanics of the time, so to speak, from the 20's through, say, the 50's. They were viewed as not wanting to "assimilate", speaking their own foreign languages and dialects, being more loyal to their homeland, good only for hard labour, and just here to make money and send it back to family "over there", as well as being (as Sacco and Vanzetti "proved") "ill-tempered", potentially violent, and criminally inclined. The book said that immigrants at Ellis Island and elsewhere were looked over by the American customs officials and found to be "not black, clearly, but not really white either." Somehow, that summary by those customs officials seemed to somehow seep into the general popular thinking of the time. This fits in with what my uncle (who had come here before us) was once telling me that , even in the 1960's, when paperwork had to be filled out which had a section for "race/ethnicity" , it used to be "White", "Negro", "Latino/Italian" and then "Other".

So anyway in this book it went on to discuss the many ways in which some of the people here, especially in the southern states much more so than the big northern cities, looked upon Italians, "southern" Italians especially, as racially and culturally inferior. And it was of course complete with testimonies from old Italian-Americans who still recall the days when they were regularly publicly called "greaseballs, W.O.P.'s, dago n!99ers, etc etc". As well as something which really surprised me, which I definitely had not heard of before, that the KuKluxKlan actually lynched at least 12 Italian immigrants in southern states (the last one having occurred in New Orleans, LA). They said that "KKK" stands for, or used to stand for, or whatever - I guess it's still active - "K00ns, K!kes, and Katholics".

So anyway, I was interested in getting some other peoples' opinions on what their "racial perception", so to speak, is of Italians and other southern Mediterranean ethnicities (ex., Spaniards, Portuguese, Jews, Greeks). Mainly I was interested in how people who identify today as members of minority groups themselves tend to view such ethnicities. I know there are always alot of old "jokes", etc, (about Italians in particular) being like , ancestrally, "part black" ( I heard them when I was younger a few times, directed at me by high school acquaintances, when I'd play the rap music I like in my car ). And that that accounts for why Italian guys (or some of us at least) bump "black music" like rap, wear gold chains, "do-rags", etc., and hook our cars up with rims and systems, you know the whole typical stereotypical bit. I know that in certain areas of NYC, in particular, blacks and Italians have not always gotten along to say the least, likewise with Jews and blacks. But in this book I was checking out today they were addressing that fact by putting forth the theory that one of the possible reasons for some of those ignorant Italian kids' racism (in places like Bensonhurst or wherever) was because they knew inside that they were considered as "not much different" than those they were fighting with, and so they were sort of trying extra hard, if you will, to prove that they were/are truly separate. Just some sociologists' theories. But who knows, sounded interesting. And I just wanted to see if anyone around here had any (honest and serious only, hopefully) opinions on it. Thanks. ~Dino
 

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I'm already responding to my own post. :eek: I realize however that this post should not be here. I apologize. I should have posted it up in the "Anywhere Else" section. Please relocate if necessary. Sorry.
 

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Very Interesting Indeed

Your post is very interesting Indeed and to your surprise..what you discussed in your post I have experienced..upfront and in person..Ive seen attitudes and behaviors like the ones that you post about..

Btw..Im indian...as an indian....most of us dont see much diffrence between whites who are from diffrent countries..as long as you look white and have white color skin I consider you white..no matter what country your from..englad..norway..italy..france..etc.

If your brown...then well your brown...

The diffrence between Indian and other minority groups is our economic status...alot of Indian people are well to do..they actually earn the highest income in this country. Not saying there arent poor indians or asians...but we are doing pretty good...we're giving back something back to society...I very proud of being an American too..I was born and raised here...yet my parents who are immigrants and are now citizens...have assimilated well...but you can still see some diffrences that exsist.

Whites make fun of indians...on tv and peddle stereotypes which generally arent true..about us...we are looked at as..people with funny accents who dont take care of themselves and are dirty...
Every minority even the italians, jews, greeks, Irish, who EVEN look the same have faced some sort of stereotyping and backlash from the minority.

In the begining Wasp's hated Irish and Italians and blacks...now Irish and Italians I believe are mainly all jumbled into being called white..while some whites still might consider italians to be of lower class and lower origin or of lesser whiteness. They mainly are white though and to the outside world or people of diffrent color skin...as long as your white it doesnt matter one bit what country of origin your from..you have white skin...then your white. simple.
Now all the english,french,italians,austrians...etc.. form the white community a majority..and stereotype minorities with diffrent skin color...blacks and hispanics the worst and Indians and asians and pacific Islanders second...Asians are now prob the most accepted group of minorites..most well liked by the majority..but not as numerous as the hispanics or blacks..

I think what happens is that the more diffrent a person is from the majority....that the more stereotyped and ignorant people will be toward them.

In your case I guess the whites from england and norway...france.etc..consider themselves to be better or more of pure "whitenes"..so there is a divide...naturally then the Italians will feel left out or hated against if they are considered less white.

The less diffrent from the majority the more accpeted you will be.

I live in NYC and Ive been to places like bensonhurst in BK and places in queens like Howard beach...where there is a high concentration of Italians...they tend to be very hostile toward other minorites...and there often many racially motivated crimes here when a minority travels through those areas... all Im saying is that you take a little extra risk going into those neighboorhoods because you might run into those stereotypical kids who hate minorities. Im sure like all stereotypes that they are way blown out of proportion though.

But YES You can usually see these kids driving expensive cars...listining to rap music...wearing chains and iced out bling...they even wear clothes from black companies...I dont understand that if you hate blacks...or if these kids hate blacks...that they should be smart enough to know that they are paying them and only helping them make their pockets fatter.

My ex girl was Italian and she lived in the center of a Italian concentrated neighboorhod..right in the center here in nyc..and yeah...most of the youth that I saw was very bigoted..they gave me dirty looks and they drove hooked up cars..and listined to rap..but my ex gf was diffrent...she was very open minded and didnt hate me cuz of my color or race...she was very good in that way come to think about it. But Part of the reason why I broke up with her was that I felt really uncomfortable..whenever I was in her neighboorhood..like I was always on edge and could never relax..kinda scared really..but thats a diffrent story

So yeah the sterotypical italian..they do exsist here in NYC and what that book says is true to some extent...my mom has a really nice boss and hes italian too he said the same thing..about how they feel as if they have to constantly prove to themselves and others that they are special or diffrent that the whites really dont consider them pure whites.

Just like the educated indians..we also have the uneducated indians...we call them FOBS...like italians are called guidos..these are racial terms that are used here in nyc.

Fobs-(fresh off the boat)..as in fagg*t who hasnt adopted the ways of the new country and still thinks he is in his old country.

Guidos (for those who dont know) - basically what dinocassanova said.

I didnt mean to offend anyone or any race...Im just giving you the perspective that most people in NYC have towards things...
 

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Very interesting. Thank you for the well thought out and detailed response. I understand what you're saying about people who are clearly not white viewing all , Europeans, say, as white. I think the key is something along the lines of another point you touched on in your post, the fact that the northern Europeans, particularly the "Anglos and Saxons" , as they used to be called, who really were the first (or among the first) to settle up in North America , the "pilgrims" you know, tend (or tended) to view southern Europeans / Mediterraneans as somewhat racially different or even inferior in some cases. Key differences were/ are such things as language, but more importantly were/are religious and cultural differences. (The southern European/ Mediterraneans being predominantly Roman Catholic , or Orthodox, of course, while the north tended towards various later-formed sects of Protestantism / Lutheranism). One key thing that was/ is held against the Irish for example is that their country has traditionally been a Roman Catholic stronghold surrounded by Protestants who tended towards strong anti-Roman Catholic (which oftentimes also became anti-Italian) feeling.

The Italians of Bensonhurst, etc, can be quite ignorant, I know. I don't like these types because people tend to stereotype me as being the exact same way, and I'm actually far from it. Sure, I might dress the same way sometimes, but I don't behave the way many of them do. They're very simple-minded people, basically, and they're very xenophobic and protective of their "neighborhood". Well, that's nothing new. The show "Growing Up Gotti" for instance, the way those kids behave, is a perfect example of something that sets us all back. Furthermore, they're "more Italian than the Italians" , as we sometimes say, but in all actuality not only were they born in America, but so was their mother and father, and their grandmother and grandfather. So really , in truth, they're probably something closer to what that Green Day song says; "American Idiot". They're just identifying themselves very strongly with a (pretty distant) Italian heritage. In Italy, in the small town where I'm originally from for instance, they'd be looked at not as Italians, just as some more loud-mouthed ****y Americanos who think they own the world.

In any case, I personally have always had a high opinion of the Indian / South Asian immigrants I've run into here due to the work ethic that I see them demonstrate, the honesty in business and general tendency to stay on the right side of the law, and also to the cultural behaviours that I see (for instance, always polite, kind, courteous). Furthermore what they are adding to American society is in many cases very important and beneficial. Many of the most brilliant doctors and medical specialists we've encountered (my grandmother's oncologist for instance) are India-born immigrants to America.

Good luck DJ'ing. ~Dino
 
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great response

Wow...your analysis of the impact of religion on peoples opinion is quite intresting and informative...I didnt know those things...

Yeah honestly indian fobs are in kinda a reverse situation where the immigrants....also have a group of people who tend to live here in NYC and act extremely fobbish..who blast indian music and dress wayyyy too traditionally..its fine to go back to your roots but its time to adapt or open your horizons are stop being ignorant...i feel bad..bcuz they wont go out and risk learning out the new world they are in. Its one thing to be proud another to just ignore what goes on around you. But we are slowly learning and adapting...but most indians in india dont act that traditional..

I def understand..about how the 3rd-4th generation italians wouldnt be considered to be italians un your home country...no country I believe teaches its people to act or behave a certain way..most people in most countries are humble, hard working individuals who are trying to make their lives better as best they can.

Its when we have people who feel the need to feel better or superior towards others that we have problems...and that goes for everyone..look at the middle east..the sunnis and ****es...they kill each other...an extreme...just bcuz one believes the other is better..

here in america...we have groups of people..from all sorts of countries and walks of life who think they are better than others...where here in america we only resort to words and stereotypes...and sometimes violence...but its not as bad as africa and the pol pot and nazi exterminations (thank god the bill of rights)...hate is a very dangerous emotion...

My personal opinion of Italians is that they are very family oriented and religous and god fearing people...alot of italians I know go to church on a very regular basis..rain or shine. I love italian food...thank god for pasta...

All in all we have alot we can learn from each other..alot of good and alot of bad....we are all diffrent and I think the key to racial integration will be the embracing of diffrence's and not fearing them...i took a little sociology myself...
 

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Re: great response

At least in NYC Italians are one of the most racist groups.
And I know cause i lived in Bensonhurst and my gf is black.
Italians should go back to where they came from........
 

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Being racist is like hating someone because they're 2 inches shorter than you. Makes no sense, has no logic. I'd prefer to see people for their actions, rather than which part of this planet they were born in.
 

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Being racist is like hating someone because they're 2 inches shorter than you. Makes no sense, has no logic. I'd prefer to see people for their actions

>>> That's exactly how I view matters of race/ethnicity. You hit it right on the head diplomatic lies.
 
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