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    During an approach after how many sh1t tests do you move on

    Approach. Got chatting and then first **** test was about age. Which then moved into not being professionally appropriate since she works for the school cafeteria. Then it moved on to not knowing me enough for a number but offered snapchat/instagram. I offered my email and linkedin. But realised...
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    New trend of countering drinks with coffee

    Not sure whether this is something post covid where HB's are countering drinks suggestion with coffee. Now I dont mind coffee as long as we dont go to starbucks for those sugar drinks. Wondering if covid made some women realise how lonely they actually are and try locking down some providers...
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    Indecisive boss stalling career

    I have an indecisive boss. His lack of assertiveness is going to stall my career. He has had a relatively slow growth and if he doesnt grow faster the entire team stalls under him. I guess my only option is to leave and look for another job, which sucks cause I actually like the place I'm at...
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    Women DO NOT hang out 1on1 alone with guys they don't wanna ****.

    Well this age old adage proved to be false for a buddy. He was just discussing his time with I assume an AW trying to make him an orbiter. If this was something few years back I would agree but nowadays women go out with guys for a free meal and free attention. But somehow I feel it was him to...
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    “Don’t kiss on the first date unless you know you’ll get laid”

    Opinions on the following I came across. I have tried it out yesterday. Lets see the response.Generally I always used to aim for a kiss to show further intent. Somethings sort of make sense like keeping the sexual tension but I thinks its applicable to only to high interest women.
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    “What’s your type”

    This is a typical IoI and she’s trying to see of she has a chance. However recently while I was asked this she also added in “is it someone blah blah blah. What about Jasmine is she your type” Now is she trying to set up her friend or is she seeing whether I agree with Jasmine being my type...
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    Weird experience got the number texted and then she casually drops in that her bf has a similar interest as me

    She was intrigued and encouraged me to send her a few pictures. Then closer to the end when she found out I liked xxxxx after a bit she dropped a casual " my bf just got into xxxx since a few months" I took the loss and bailed shortly after. I was told it could have been a **** test and to...
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    The fastest way to knock women of the pedestal....

    .... read their chats with their girlfriends. I dont encourage or condone a person from "Spying" or "infringing on her privacy". Once you do read the chats you'll see how they actually are. If youre a simp, she's keeping you as her BB option or mocking you on chat. If you dont have access...
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    Why are men shamed for using escorts/hookers? Isnt that the ultimate dread if a guy has used them?

    Thinking about it. It makes sense in a way that women will shame them since it removes their only power over men. Once men know the price of pvssy most women will be afraid. Therefore they shame men from using them etc. If a woman knows a guy has used them, she is in constant dread. Thinking if...
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    I sense a long time plate (almost a year) more like gf is going to break. Ghost her or keep her spinning till she breaks up?

    The signs are there. That attraction is dropping or she wants commitment and realises its not going to be from me. Her friends have convinced her to skip me multiple times and she agrees with them, but she always came back. This time I think she will follow through their advice. One of her...
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    Broken plate comes back? Set logistics asap or wait it out?

    My longest plate of under a year broke some time back. I had the warning signs when she first took way to long to respond to logistics, apologizing and cancelling the next day. Gave the benefit of the doubt. 2nd time she claimed would be busy with work. She was giggling as usual while we...
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    What is with girlfriends of your plate/ltr/gf/wife always trying to interfere

    They'll try to convince them to do better or you need to spend less time with him because I dont like him. Recently I noticed a bitter gf of plate was insulting her friendzoned orbiter saying he changed and thinks he became cool after getting a gf. And how she hates him bringing his new gf...
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    Signs your plate is going to break soon...

    Assuming you dont want to be in a relationship with her. She starts trying to manipulate you with s3x She tries to have a non-sexual date not the regular kind of **** test where she says "No s3x tonight"* She wants you to keep meeting her friends She wants to see you more than 1-2x a week. She...
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    Fun ideas for lockdown date idea

    Well obviously for plates it was always going over or inviting them over. But that gets plates breaking faster. They start seeking commitment faster. I used to mix it up by making them walk while we get some cheap takeout or icecream. Sometime I'd let them watch me play video games. I...
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    Being unpredictable

    So I was reading some threads and a though came in that finally when routine sets in, it also sets in comfort. Too much comfort means women take it for granted. I see a few parallels with having a routine. Just after I came across TRP and on SS, I got my first plate. But she realised that...
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    What to do when women say they want more emotion and cant stand the indifference?

    After ****ing a plate and lying in bed for like an hour, I started initiating for R2 but she wasnt in the mood just wanted to cuddle. So I left a little while later. Have "work" in the morning. 20 mins later I get a message saying she wants me to have an emotional connection with her and she...
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    Reschedule or soft next?

    On Tue I planned for a date on Thursday. No response till Wed night. Now I didnt feel meeting up on Thursday since I called a buddy up to watch Borat Subsequent Moviefilm. On Wed she texted to nexflix and chill for Thu. I told her I'd be busy Thu. My buddy says Im punishing her for showing...
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    I've noticed this pattern in all plates around the 2-3month mark.

    Plate pulls back takes a day to reply. This has happened to 2 new plates almost like clockwork. Is this their version of a power struggle to try to get commitment? Dont they know that I wont be waiting for them and will either not reply or cancel the plan if she takes a day to reply.
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    Whats with plates getting FOMO?

    Call up plate to set something up. She says she was stressed about work and already made plans for the day I suggested. She doesnt offer to reschedule. I dont have time for her small talk. Next day she messages wanting my attention. Generally when they reach out its my go-to for setting up some...
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    Women love attention. At what point to they rather not have that attention.

    I met my cousin and she was discussing how she finally meet some guy after he pursued her for almost a year. Her new alpha/DJ isnt committing to her and she's trying to control him with sex. Now I know she only met the guy because he is a safe option for her to settle with. She literally...
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