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OK, here's the situation. I've been going out with this girl for about 3 months and we've been having awesome sex the whole time. Last night we said the L-word for the first time (something I've never said to any other girl and don't really want advice on). I was a little hesitant... Last...

I agree that the e-mail was a bad idea. It's not a good idea to show that she's getting to you that easily. I think this is a situation nearly every guy has had at some point. The girl sounds interested, but can never seem to get together. This is tough, because it's hard to tell the...

I'm going to college so I can get a good job, make lots of money, and retire young so I can do whatever I want with the rest of my life. Financial independence is my goal. That's what I'm doing with my life.

Sounds like she's either (1) shy or (2) doesn't like you as much as you think. The way to find out which is to walk up to her, start a conversation, and get her number.

... that sounds really dumb. Why not just talk to them? Subliminal messages are only good when you don't have the language skills for anything else.

I think this is great advice, but I have a clarifying question: How do you tell the difference between genuine low interest / her not being interested at all, and a situation where persistence is necessary? For example, I have a friend who has called and asked out a girl many, many times and...

More details are probably necessary. What's she doing to be a tease?

You're wrong. It's entirely possible to meet girls who aren't into drugs but don't care if you do them. The bad boy appeal is real, and it's possible to find girls who don't do a bunch of drugs but aren't bothered by it either. The girl I'm currently dating proves this point.

I don't want to seem like the guy abandoning the cause here, but I think you're wrong. "Girls react defensively when you categorize them" - duh. For comparison, try reading some womens' sites; they categorize men in much the same way we categorize women [we have sluts, girlfriend material...

I think it will mostly depend on the girl. However, just as a point of respect, I don't think you should talk about other girls when you're around her... I know it pisses me off when a girl I'm trying to date keeps talking about other guys, why should it be different for girls? I think the...

For mental toughness, I suggest psychedelic drugs. I've had some pretty crazy trips, and after that, not much makes me nervous/sad/angry/whatever. Honestly, who cares about some girl acting dumb when 3 days ago you weren't even sure if you were human and/or alive? Obviously this isn't for...

Wow, everyone else's replies suck. Saying "get into a good college instead of finding girls" is stupid, because you can very easily do both and enjoy highschool a lot more. Meeting girls: school-related events are good. Any kind of extracurriculars, a sport, debate, whatever, will help you...

Yes, everyone makes too big of a deal about prom. Girls like it because they get to look pretty and get lots of attention. Guys like it because they think they'll get laid. I didn't go to prom... I can think of a lot more fun things to do with the $300 or so it would cost to do. Instead...

A question that I used that led to a fairly interesting conversation: "If your life was a book, what genre would it be?" Of course, the girl has to be fairly smart, but it's an interesting deep question.

That has absolutely nothing to do with his situation at all. The reason she said "you're moving too fast" is because you tried to make another date the day after the pervious one, which is dumb. Saying "I want to get to know you" then her saying "you're moving too fast" is a rejection line...

This sounds like waaaaaaaaaaaaay more trouble than it's worth. Seriously... Why try to date someone whose mom will constantly get in the way? You'll probably spend more time sneaking around than actually hanging out with her. There are enough girls out there that you shouldn't bother with...

You're too high when you run out of weed and fall asleep. Whoops, wrong question... I think the answer is fairly simple. Go for what you can get. Even if you feel a girl is "beneath" you, it's at least better than nothing... And having a backup will make you less concerned for how you...

I think the message is to hurry up and make a move on her. She's probably getting impatient, so try to kiss her sometime soon.

I guess it depends how much of an outdoor person you are, but I like to sometimes just chill outside in the woods, or around a river, or whatever. Just doing nothing at all every now and then is cool. Aside from that, try bookstores, go look for small restaurants/coffee shops/whatever to...

If you want to sit next to her, sit next to her. What's the big deal? She's obviously feeling your game, so there's nothing to worry about.