I know this really cool girl from the girls soccer team, and we talk and you know just chill, i like her but i dont know if she likes me, well a few weeks ago i went to a party, just blown out of my mind, i mean i couldnt even describe how i felt, i was so fu**kin stoned. Well i get there and she calls me over and we start talking and she notices i am blown and i am drinking and just totally wasted. I mean i know this girl doesnt do any of that stuff, so should i stop my habits in order to get her, i mean not stop (i wont do that for anyone) but just dont do it around her, or do you think she will be cool with it? help me out