"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tease?

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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More details are probably necessary. What's she doing to be a tease?
 

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she says she really wants to sit next to me at a table then after a while moves away one chair and talks to my friend a bit more. We still make good eye contact and she smiles at me though.... I am in 9th grade if this matters at all
 

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Personally I think that she might be testing you in some way. The best thing you can do is to just not let it phaze you. Just go about your business talking to your friends or whatever you were doing and don't pay her any mind. Deprive her of that attention that she feeds of of. By keeping your cool and going about your business it lets her know that you don't play games. Then when she tries to flirt with you again you tell her "Listen (name goes here), im not one to play games so if you wanna do sumthin let me know, otherwise as I said... im not one to play games." By you doing this you take the cards out of her hand and you hold the ball. Now she has an ultimatum(sp?). Either she gets with the program or you're grateful that you found out soon enough that she was nuthin but a sunshine girl.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Best friends? NAY

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Either:

A. Don't play her game at school, get her phone # and set up a date. It will be easier to fgure out whats up. (Dam I whish someone would have told me that when I was a freshmen).

B. If you must deal with her at school, then play the game like she has never seen, sit by her for a second talk a little. Then spot one of your friends tell her you'll be back in a second go talk to your friend, get back to her talk for another minute and do it again with another friend.
 
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