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Has anybody ever had problems with running out of things to say, socialize while you're with a set or with a single person for an extended time? For example, I was on a road trip with 2 friends for a week and we started off with a bang until it slowly turned into a awkward, silent trip at the...

Ok, I know this is a strange question since everybody seems to have more problems djing with girls but I recently realized that I'm having more and more time to myself that its become a serious issue. Its so true that when you go out and try, you will start to increase your skills in...

I've been wondering, although we want to grab our balls and talk to the girls, collect rejections, ask for numbers, how do we separate ourselves from the afc who flock to girls??? They also try to be ****y and funny besides catering to their afc tendencies. Recently, I was on a road trip...

Thanks to this site, I finally got a gf! Upon reflection, I was a hopeless AFC, now turned into a recovering AFC and hopefully a semi-DJ now. Yet, after only a month of gf/bf, I found out that she was 28 and me 23. On top of that, my parents were opposed (being traditional). They...

Today, I'm all beat. I feel as if I've bumped into the uncircumable AFC wall. Just 6 days ago, I was all feeling like a DJ from so many success with 5 girls to date and choose including 1 that showed signs of high IL. Now, 6 days later till my birthday, these girl were flaking out one by...

Lately I've been lifting weights but still rather weak, I've been lifting 36 kg roughly 75 lbs of weight safely. While dating a girl, I was joking with her about carrying her in my arm. Think of your token way of carrying a girl as a prince does to a princess in those kids fairy tales...

While practicing eye contact, this issue suddenly popped up. If 3 seconds rule is so important, then we really don't have much time to use eye contact. plus a smile. The only time when I can think of it is when you just see her and you're approaching her.

I was dating a girl starting out great and since we're at the stage where I can hold her hands and she's resting her head against my shoulder. I wanted to go for a kiss. The sad thing is, this is the first time I've ever gone this far (shocking huh, at my age) that all the DJ principles and...

I usually ask girls out over the phone but what do you guys think of using e-mail instead? I've been exchanging e-mails with the jet lag girl. Any suggestions?

I'm not sure if this applies to this forum but I'll just ask anyway before it gets moved. I've been having a argument with my girl cousin over the issue of handling information about each other's dating info. Basically, I shared my cousin's dating story just with my mom who was into it...

Recently I picked up a girl I know from the airport who I heard has a crush on me through my other friend. I guess its human nature to become interested in somebody when you find out about their interest to you. Anyways, it turned out that her flight was delayed for 4 hours and when the...

I know a girl who seems to be pretty interested in me based on what she does with me (hold my hands, pressed it against her chest while we walked, etc) Now, tonight at 9pm, she called me suddenly and asked me whether I'm free tonight. I suggested a movie but she said she preferred watching a...

I don't really have a problem that I want to ask people but I wanted to add this to see what people here thinks. Last night, I went out on a dinner date with a girl from my school and after eating, I asked her whehther she's up for a movie. She refused saying that its a bit late for movie...

While I was on the running track, the girl I dated once suddenly came beside me to run with me which was pretty unexpected but a nice surprise. Anyways, I haven't called her for 2, 3 weeks since I had a date (busy) and I guess that was part of a challenge because she talked about how its been...

I posted this girl's info back a while ago but to make the story short, I had asked her out 2 times, got rejected so I figured that I got nexted, so I simply nexted her as well. This is the UG girl that I was talking about earlier and how I thought she had high IL on me based on my friend's...

As the title says, I have a sinking feeling that I was rejected by a girl in the 2, 3 range. She is a nice person but everybody who has seen her says she's like a guy. No, she is not just a tomboy but also looks like a guy... Recently, I've been getting vibes from her and to make the story...

Theres a girl who I dragged it out for a few months not kiss closing or anything so I pretty much gave up on her until recently she called me out of the blue. Turns out that she is graduating and will move to a city 3 hours away from here and she asked me out to see me. She was giggling...

I'll be out of town for a week on a trip to Orland Florida so I probably would have little chance to go online. It'll be a nice break! Anyways, I don't have much friends that I can ask to go out on a trip with me so I'm going by myself. Yes, it won't be as fun as going out with a group of...

Ok, I just made two phone calls and it would be great if you guys can rate it. I'm not sure whether you can call this success or rejection but I'm getting good practices over the phone! I made two phone calls to two girls and right now, I'm thinking that I probably failed but I'm up for more...

Ok, I'm getting better at approaching girls on the street these days but one day, I noticed that a girl I know may have seen me in action. I was at a bus stop and this girl was playing with her shoes because the strap broke so she had to walk with her barefeet. Now, that gave me a great...