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    Hot to Cold. Why?

    Had this girls details for awhile and pinged 2/3 times to meet up, she agreed every time but I always flaked on her. Id also unfollowed her on social media as I clean it out. Pinged her again to meet up that day, which she said she would know in an hour if she could as meeting her friend, she...
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    How to do date at mine or hers?

    Had a 2nd date yesterday. Taking her back in the uber to her place and managed for heavy making out, hand on d, hand on her tits. She was saying "if you were thinking of coming back, I have ppl here, but you can come round next time" I said no, no in a funny way and joking at the end about not...
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    How do you be higher value that the girl?

    For a specific example, she has a better social circle than me, more powerful/famous friends, more followers on instagram, is she not going to perceive me as lower value than her? How do I show her I am higher value and worth chasing.
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    Girl from 5 months ago is back

    5 months ago a girl I had been involved with for 7 months friendzoned me. I told her that we cannot be friends and we should'nt speak or see each other again. We removed each other from social media and deleted numbers. That was the end of it until last night she liked 3 of my photos on...
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    made girl too jealous

    I posted a pic on instagram of me having a drink with another girl who is smiling at the camera. obvious we are on a date. Another girl who I was dating for one month who is not in the country at the moment responds to this with a crying face. I responded "?" she didnt reply. So I said "when...
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    How to play long game?

    You have a chick who you cannot bang due to logistical reasons, so you decide to go the long game route. What is the best way to go about this? Do you ping every now and then to keep you fresh in their minds, or do you let them come to you.
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    The Psychology Of Persuasion Applied To Game

    Reading the Psychology of persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini and he cites an interesting study. Research was conducted in 1978 by Ellen Langer (Professor of Psychology at Harvard) published a research study about the power of the word "because". A student cut the queue of a busy printer and used...
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    Are they slvts or did we game them

    You meet her. You bang her within 2 weeks. Was she just a yes girl slvt all along or did we game them. Always wondered if a girl I banged easily is just that way with any guy or if I gamed her so well she wouldn't normally but she banged.
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    Do you keep in touch with girls you've banged

    If you've banged a girl and she moves away. But she might be coming back at some point, do you keep in touch every now and then to keep you in her mind, or do you let her come to you? I haven't messaged a girl I banged on Friday, but she might be back in a month. It's only a might. We haven't...
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    Try again or next?

    I got my first every insta date with a cute brunette 18 yr old Ukrainian, well dressed and thin nice body. She is in my city for another 2 weeks to study then she goes back north. I took her for a day 3 yesterday and I went for the kiss, she pulled back, and said "you know we're only friends" I...
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    Daygamed in London for first time

    I hadn't daygamed in 2 weeks, still a newb doing this for 2 months about once a week. But always wanted to daygame here. Lots and lots of girls from all over. My hometown has a population of 150,000, I can walk round for a couple of hours and see 5 girls to approach, this was making things...
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    How to handle girls who reschedule for next week?

    Got a number today day gaming, well not even a number, I approached this girl and our conversation was about 3/4 mins, she gave me her fb name and went off. I didnt get a chance to really say much at all, I add her on there and we talk, she ends up asking ME out for a drink, I say sounds good...
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    Girl has a boyfriend

    Im taking a girl out for drinks for the second time tomorrow, just me and her. I day gamed her in the street, and at the number close she said she had a boyfriend, I said does he let you out, she said he does, I got her number. I took her out for drinks, she asked if she should be bringing...
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    First four day game approaches

    Hi, Think I saw a similar thread to this but couldn't find it so starting my own. Found it tough but rewarding today, I really need some tips!! Did my first ever 4 approaches. I aimed for 5 but I was out for quite a long time. I was using the London day game model. With all girls I opened...
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    Buying a bottle of wine for going round?

    Hi, Ive been on two dates with a plate and on the second I ended up going back to her place, totally her idea, we didnt have sex or kiss yet... but she has been giving hints at me coming round for the 3rd date round there, playing board games, watching a "scary" tv series on netflix. My...
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    After 3 months shes gone cold

    I had made another tread about this but not all the information was correct, and also wanted to give the whole story. Sorry for the long post. I met a girl 3 months ago, she is 18, I am 28. Things were going great. I gamed her well until this point. Push/pull, texting was 60/40 with her...
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    Girlfriend - no counter offer

    Am I over-reacting here. Girlfriend who I have been seeing for 3 months we were supposed to be going to the city this weekend, she had bought tickets to a show and I started making the plans for tomorrow and she says she cannot go, her mum didnt let her (shes 18 and has very strict residence...
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    How does game change in a relationship?

    How does game change? Or does it? -I used to text only to set-up dates, now I'm finding myself texting more, still try to make it not everyday -We meet once a week, this is how its always been, is this good? -Being a mystery, how important is this now? I find myself telling her what I'm up to...
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    Last Minute Resistance - How To Proceed?

    Went out with my virgin 18 year old gf tonight. Things got heated but no sex. For reasons I wont go into I cant stay round hers and she cant stay round mine. We agree that we should stay at a hotel soon, it needs to be pre-meditated as she has to let her residence know - they have a curfew. We...
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    When / how do I tell her about my disability?

    I've just started a relationship with someone. However, there's something I haven't told her about myself - I have Crohn's disease, and I've had surgery to place a stoma bag on me, this removes faeces into the bag on my stomach. We haven't had sex yet (shes a virgin), but in the past I have...
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