I've just started a relationship with someone. However, there's something I haven't told her about myself - I have Crohn's disease, and I've had surgery to place a stoma bag on me, this removes faeces into the bag on my stomach.
We haven't had sex yet (shes a virgin), but in the past I have had one night stands and not removed my t shirt blaming scarring the reason, and they've not noticed, it is discreet.
I want to have sex with her, but I'm also worried about telling her, but I feel if I have sex with her before telling her, this could become an issue, but I can say that I just wasn't ready. I feel like I want to wait until she falls for me to say anything.
I don't know when to tell her, and how I should go about saying it.
We haven't had sex yet (shes a virgin), but in the past I have had one night stands and not removed my t shirt blaming scarring the reason, and they've not noticed, it is discreet.
I want to have sex with her, but I'm also worried about telling her, but I feel if I have sex with her before telling her, this could become an issue, but I can say that I just wasn't ready. I feel like I want to wait until she falls for me to say anything.
I don't know when to tell her, and how I should go about saying it.