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    "Text me"

    Me: 28 year old professional. Her: 22 year old high school English teacher four days on the job, now on strike in Chicago with all the other public school teachers this week. Got her number in a coffee shop after some nice banter and smiles. Did not give her my number. Called her around...
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    Best pickup spots in Paris?

    I posted this in the main forum but realized it's probably better here. I am in Paris for just a few days - tonight Friday is my only night alone. Where is an American guy (27) most likely to pick up a girl in Paris? I've had a couple french gfs before but they spoke English and we met in...
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    Best pickup spots in Paris?

    I am in Paris for just a few days - tonight Friday is my only night alone. Where is an American guy (27) most likely to pick up a girl in Paris? I've had a couple french gfs before but they spoke English and we met in other countries. I have no idea how to go about picking up a French girl on...
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    How to: Fall in love?

    I'm 27, i've benefited from this website in years gone by for the purpose it seems to be intended for... answering the question of How to pick up women. But truly, I think I am like most men (if not necessarily most men on this site) in that I really have no interest in picking up multiple...
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    Beards?

    What about beards? I've been growing one recently. Frankly I think it looks bad, but I have a terrible sense of aesthetics when it comes to my own gender's looks. I've heard from some people the rule "have some facial hair for the first two dates, but not the third" so when I kissed the girl...
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    Scheduling

    I am in a tricky situation with a girl I met here in China. First thing to note is, I am living in China for business now. I am not into Asian girls. So there is a very, very limited supply of expat girls to date - this one is super cute and cool so I have been trying to play my cards right...
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    Down about my x's new relationship

    So towards the end of college I got in a relationship with a very cool, smart girl that lasted just over a year. She wasn't perfect (could have been a bit more well read outside her field) but she was hot, super smart, great in bed, and 100% sane and easy personality, so about as perfect as...
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    We aren't comfortable with each other

    So I have this new girl I've been dating for a few weeks. I met at the end of last year, and when we got back to campus, I asked her out, and we've really hit it off. We've gone out a bunch of times, we were making out by the middle of our first date. We haven't had sex... Progress has been...
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    2nd Date

    I'm in the unusual situation (for me) of preparing for a second date with a really cute, smart girl (who is in my major) after the first date actually went excellently. I realized that I shouldn't plan out my dates as much as I have in the past, after having success with this totally...
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    Smartypants

    So before the summer started I went on a barcrawl with this girl in my major (physics) who is also in astronomy... obviously one smart chick. Also quite good looking 8.5/10 - so basically one of like three good looking girls in my line of work at this school. We were hanging on each other much...
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    Picking up chicks vs. Looking for women

    I'd like to poll everybody here out of curiousity, and ask what your motivation is in terms of picking up women. There seem to be a lot of people here looking for advice on meeting and attracting women so that they can find an ideal partner, somebody to hang out with and have sex with, and be a...
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    She says there's no spark

    I'm a junior in college. I thought I basically had this 9 locked in - summary: Date 1 - Coffee, basically on her invitation Date 2 - Out with mutual friends for a couple hours of jazz (Thing) 3 - A lecture, friend was present afterwards, no kiss Date 4 - On her invitation, to a career...
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    Beginning of Relationship Gap Time

    I'm a junior in college. I met this very cool, very hot girl about a month ago at an Action Darfur rally, and msgd her on facebook. We ended up going out a few times, and turned out to have a friend in common. We went out once for coffee, then once on a sort of double date with this couple...
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    When to call

    I'm a junior in undergrad. So I met this hot fresh-off-the-boat french foreign exchange student with pretty limited english skills. I introduced myself at a foreign exchange thing at a bar, and then left and went to another bar with her and her friends. None of these girls have cell phones...
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    Feel her out

    I haven't had to come here in a while because I usually just play the numbers game these days and don't concentrate on any one girl. But this one's an HB9.5 and a cool person, so I think it's worth my time to type for a minute. I'm a sophomore in college, met this girl last week at the end...
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    Drunk = No Consequences?

    I'm a freshman in college. There's a pretty cute girl that I'd like to bag for the summer. She may be interested, she may not. Problem is, we have lots of mutual friends, and if I make a pass and fail, it will be awkward. My proposed solution: I have a formal dance coming up for my frat...
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    Easy way to creating Six-Pack Muscle (*After* dropping bodyfat)?

    I'm 19, i'm a *really* lanky/skinny/puny guy. My wrists look like those of a 12 year old girl, i have basically no biceps, etc. I've always been told that the reason most people don't have a six-pack is not for lack of muscle, but because they have a high bodyfat percentage. I've always...
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    Still Confident, But In Way Over My Head

    Background: I am a college freshman with a pretty good long term relationship under my belt. I've apparently mangaged to attract the girl of my dreams. I went out with her on Friday, and we had a pretty good time. Good conversation, went back to my place for a movie, a little cuddling but...
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    A little cuddling, holding hands, but no kiss?

    I had a confusing date last night. The girl liked me, but was pretty hesitant to get physical. We cuddled a little during a movie, but she went for a hug at the end of the night. I'm trying to decide what happened / what to do. I typed the whole thing out below as much for me to read it as...
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    Strategy: Hang with hot guys or average guys?

    Hey I'm trying to decide between two fraternity houses to live in next year. One house is full of pretty average guys - a bit overweight on average, not so great looking. House two has lots of good looking guys. This got me wondering: In terms of picking up women, is it easier to hang...
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