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Met a girl two years ago at work. We clicked but due covid and personal reasons nothing ever happened. About a year ago we started drifting apart which I caused, again due to personal reasons. Still see her at work from time to time, but comes today. I had a two month holiday and saw her again...

Very long story, will try to keep it as short as possible - for whole my life I struggled with low self-esteem - many girls found me attractive and fun, but I never was able to take it further because of the above - when I find someone attractive, I tend to close up, not being able to talk to...

Last year I met a girl, we hit it off, but never got to anything due to covid lockdown. I kinda ruined it after a few months because I got too needy (I always have this with people I'm interested in). I've always been very weak socially, especially with girls I'm truly interested in, so I felt...

Try to make a long story short Never been good in social settings, tend to close up with girls I really like, tend to feel like I'm the most creepy and ugly guy out there. Met a girl at work last year, was only able to have good conversations with her via text, and it went amazingly well...

Gonna be a long post (bottom is a tl:dr), but after this experience, I hope I can finally get the energy to make a change. 32 years old, always had trouble with my self-esteem and social skills. Age 17 started a 3 year long relationship, I ended it and immediately rolled into a ‘secret’...

Not gonna go explain the total story. But would it would be a good idea to just go nc on her for a day or two? I’m quite afraid she would just go to someone else and I’m done. Or would it spark some interest? Side question: if I would be her chad, what would my texting frequency be? Would I...

Been texting a girl at work for a while now, we don't see each other often at work because of different workplaces. But yesterday we arrived at the same time and walked towards the building. Our texting has been going great, good conversations, slightly sexual from time (I don't ask her out...

I’ve noticed I can be witty, but only via text. I’ve come to realize it’s because you have the time to respond and think about it. But then again I have days where I can be witty in real life with direct responses as well. Of course I’d want this in real life continuously as well. Girls like...

Been texting this girl at work for a while now. Since Corona we're stuck at home, but we're in a mutual group chat as well with other colleagues. During the day, whenever I haven't heard from her yet and she says someone in that group, but not to me in private, I feel worthless. I feel like she...

Due to the Corona virus, all gyms in my country are closed for at least three weeks. I can't even go to a shop to buy weights as they've been closed as well. I've been making some great progress lately and dread the fact that it will all go to waste, so I would like to minimize the losses. -...

Due to some events the last month and a half, I've come to realize my mind is completely fvcked up and I tend to give it what it thinks is happening. Even though I realize what is going on and I know what I have to do (or should do), I can't fight it. Therefore I do think it's time for me to...

Met this girl at work, together for a course for half a year but afterwards will work at different places but still see each other from time to time. First weeks of the course (about 2 months back) all was ok, we talked a bit, not that much as I'm still 'intimidated' by beautiful girls. But I...

I've always wanted to live in the vicinity of where I live now, mainly because of family and friends. But even on this anonymous forum, it's very hard for me to say I'm 31 and still live with my mom (for personal and family reasons like last kid out of the house, father died at 12 etc...). But...

Hi guys This is going to be a long post so please bare with me. Lately I've been posting a lot of threads. I've been noticing a tendency in my behaviour on this forum and it's always the same. I tend to post some threads for a while, basically always about the same stuff deep down, but in...

I'm 30 and am completely gray due to my genes, it runs in the family. Until I was 27 I dyed my hair. Then I just quit because of the time I spent at a hairsalon and because it's not that good for my hair anyway. But I honestly don't feel confident when I'm going out, you can hear people think...

Couple of years ago I worked with a girl at a bar. She was and is ugly, I'd rate her a 3. That plus the fact she was only 18 and had the typical teen mentality. Now because I had no attraction to her whatsoever, I basically did what I wanted. When she did something that I didn't like, I called...

How my life looks: I have an amazing job where I only have to work for an average of 5h a day. The trip there takes about 45m, so lets just say all included I work 7h a day. When I get home or before work, depending on the shift, I go to the gym. I spend an average of 1h there. But then I get...

Hi guys Been going to the gym for over 4 years now, the results are not what it should be. Reason is my diet. I've tried eating a surplus of calories, but it's hard for me to eat more even though I'm full. So I tend to seek solution in shakes. But I have my thoughts about the health issues...

I've been forcing myself into more conversations, just talking more and trying to keep a conversation going by asking follow up questions. But I still have such low self-esteem that I feel it shows on the way I ask questions or try to put in a joke or a tease. When I'm at home, I feel good, I...

Hi guys Since february till about the end of september I've been drinking 2-3 beers a day. During the weekends it was even more when I was out with friends. Even though this was not extreme and I did this because I was emotionally a bit down, I felt this was not a good lifestyle. My work or gym...