Recent content by Silkandsteel

Sort him out, he sounds delusional almost. Don't go home and leave this poor girl to his AFC insecurities, she won't focus on the important things like you and her studies. Talk to him face-to-face and make it clear that if he has ANY respect for her at all, he'll admit defeat and move on. I...

...ok, Has it ever occured to you that she's a TOTAL flappy amateur and has absolutely NO experience whatsoever in dealing with guys or anything. If she's not that attractive and she's finally got someone to notice her online, she's going to be terrible at dealing with meeting guys and...

Not definately, but after a few times, she will prob develop feelings for you in some form. What is she like? how is she with other guys? is she very confident or very shy normally?

I don't think you need worry mate. She's making sure that you know she's interested, I reckon the family stuff is probably true and she even texts you at 5am to let you know she's thinking about you. She's maybe just very extrovert and needy and doesn't want to lose your attention. If her...

I get where you're coming from mate, I really do. When you feel it, you feel it and all the psychology of right and wrong in the world can't always shut that off, but I think the point is that you remain in control and don't let your emotions run away with you. A lot of the principles that...

She may be on the rebound. You mentioned she behaved with you the same way she did when she was with her boyfriend, she also told you she'd broken up, she also said "she couldn't handle him" (???!!!) so she may have been looking for an AFC self-esteem boost. Hard to say for sure from one date...

Haha, yes, yes they can...

Take charge

can someone like me get a good looking woman? - This is the answer to your own question my friend - you doubt yourself. Don't, realise that you're physically attractive and, in your own words: "excel in many different areas of my life", all I reckon you need is some self confidence and some...

Hmmm...I see 2 things here that could be happenning... You said thing have been cool right? no fights, etc...she's creating drama mate...she needs some chaos to keep her brain balanced... 1) Sh!t test - she's testing your foundations and how well you can handle her being so vague and...

If I just stood up and walked away and left the relationship, then she gets to KNOW that she has yanked my chain in a big way. -Yeh, she would have also realised that you're not going to take her crap anymore too, that you value yourself and that you want a better life for yourself which...

"Do you like Star Wars?" Guys, I'm joking...:)

After testing the water, give her emotions something to think about, then back off a little and let her dwell on you. Create a pull to you from her side, let her want that experience again. Make it a good one...

She sounds seriously cruel. I kinda feel sorry for this "friend"...you were getting some, he probably wasn't. She was either bedding you all OR she's just using these friends of hers for 2 reasons: 1) to test your jealousy and control 2) to get a self-esteem boost from "extras". I think some...

First, don't use a proxy, especially another woman to find out about a woman you're interested in... Second, don't ever let her know you checked her out ELECTRONICALLY, she needs to know you want to find out about her yourself (as above) It worries me that a female co-worker would go and...