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Recent content by phenom

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    Post your favorite healthy recipes!

    Easy one here: 2 Chicken Breasts (bone in) - peppered/lightly salted grilled Served with: Green Beans or Brown Rice (Success Instant Rice)
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    good cold approach line -- discuss

    Cold Approach Thats pretty good, I'm going to try that one out this weekend. One I use and it works about 90% of the time to strike up a conversation is: "There you are, I've been looking all over for you." or "Sorry I'm late (look at watch), I got caught up in traffic". Of course you...
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    Finally started lifting

    Congratulations, Zoso. You will find that your hard work in the gym will pay off. It will take some time though but don't get discouraged. It will do wonders for your confidence and you will notice how much easier it will be to get laid and date many women. I started lifting and doing...
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    John Kerry Shirt as a Pick Up tool

    Thanks for the compliment, 007!!!:D I would just like to add that I like Liberals and recognize that they are good for the country. Liberals need Conservatives and vice versa. The two idealologies have created a natural system of checks and balances for this country. There's a constant...
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    Advice Again Please

    The goal is whatever YOU want it to be for yourself. Basing your goal on what others' goals are is AFC. You decide what you want the end result to be, whether its finding THE ONE or adding notches to the old bed post. For me, my goal right now doesn't have much to do with women. I'm in my...
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    The truth about Sluts!

    Come on Tatlongxxx, that's no way to live. I know that there are a lot of cold-hearted *****es out there. Theres a lot of guys out there who are the same way. It goes both ways. Like I said in another post: You have to let girls stand on their own two feet. I don't judge girls I sleep with...
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    ****y & funny

    I was talking to an HB last night and my buddy and his GF walk up to chit chat. Shortly after my buddy leaves to go to the restroom and It's just me with the HB and the GF (whom I barely know). I put my hand on the GF's shoulders and said in a serious but joking manner "Hey, quit callin me...
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    When to Call - Phenom's Method

    I never call a girl up the next day for this, it's crossing into the AFC zone. This should be handled at the end of the actual date. You should know at that point if there is a possibility of a 2nd date or not by the vibes. I would just call her up a few days later and talk to her like...
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    John Kerry Shirt as a Pick Up tool

    Just because Bush went to Yale and grew up in a prominent family doesn't mean he can't relate to the hard-working, blue-collared folks who are the backbone of this country. Why do you think rural America loves him? Believe me, most of my family are farmers and I spend much of my time in the...
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    The "dreaded" LJBF zone.

    Look on the bright side. Getting LJBF'd is a good thing. As soon as that happens then the pressure is off. You're free to be who you are around them without the nervousness that you had before (as long as you're still hanging out with them, of course). You can be ****y/funny, a little...
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    When to Call - Phenom's Method

    Ok, I know we all ponder the "how many days after I get her numer should I call" question. It is an inexact science and every situation/girl is different. This is a method I developed out of trial-and-error and actually stumbled upon it within the last few years (by noticing what I was doing...
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    Flying solo tomorrow night, any tips?

    I've actually had some of the best times going out solo. I have this more of a "nothing to lose attitude". Sometimes when your with your boys, there is an added pressure to suceed. Most of the time I feel like I'm trying to impress them more than actually picking up the girl. Besides, if...
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    Relationship that starts with sex on day 1

    I look at it like this: If I bang a girl after the first date, then I consider that my game was good and I was just so charming that she couldn't resist me. It's all about your frame of mind and looking at things in a positive light. You can either be negative and jaded and put her in the...
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    Duke Method

    Not just the ass-grabbing part, but that admiting to her that you are a man and not apologizing for it.
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    The Complete Product Review Thread

    Agreed, Ricky Been reading it for the last week. On chapter 6, I think........lol, it's been a few days. I have to say it is very interesting and reader friendly. Lot of good information for the aspiring DJ regarding friendships, dating, work relations.....etc. I especially like his tips...