Ok, I know we all ponder the "how many days after I get her numer should I call" question. It is an inexact science and every situation/girl is different.
This is a method I developed out of trial-and-error and actually stumbled upon it within the last few years (by noticing what I was doing when I was successful). It has helped me out a lot of times and has relieved me of the burden of counting the days.
The method is simple: Simply don't call until Tuesday or Wednesday. Thats it. Say you meet a hottie while out carousing on a Friday or Saturday night and she gives you her number. Well that gives you a few days between the meeting and the phone call to not seem desperate. If you get a number on Tuesday or Wednesday while out; then wait till the following Tues or Wed to give her a ring.
The reason these days are important, I beleive, is that most girls have yet made plans for the weekend during this time and are more likely to accept hanging out with you for a date or fun times. Wait till Thursday to call and she probably has her weekend full, in which you will have to wait another time - killing the momentum. Call on Monday and there will be too many days between setting up the date and the weekend which will give just enough time for something to go wrong. You want her to have some time to anticipate seeing you but you don't want her to have too much time where interest may drop.
The main goal of the first call should just be about setting up the date anyway; as is preached on this site. This has worked great for me up to this point and I've noticed my success rate has improved by doing this.
This is my method. I'm relatively new here so if this has been posted before and I'm beating a dead horse then I apologize. Hope it is useful nontheless.
This is a method I developed out of trial-and-error and actually stumbled upon it within the last few years (by noticing what I was doing when I was successful). It has helped me out a lot of times and has relieved me of the burden of counting the days.
The method is simple: Simply don't call until Tuesday or Wednesday. Thats it. Say you meet a hottie while out carousing on a Friday or Saturday night and she gives you her number. Well that gives you a few days between the meeting and the phone call to not seem desperate. If you get a number on Tuesday or Wednesday while out; then wait till the following Tues or Wed to give her a ring.
The reason these days are important, I beleive, is that most girls have yet made plans for the weekend during this time and are more likely to accept hanging out with you for a date or fun times. Wait till Thursday to call and she probably has her weekend full, in which you will have to wait another time - killing the momentum. Call on Monday and there will be too many days between setting up the date and the weekend which will give just enough time for something to go wrong. You want her to have some time to anticipate seeing you but you don't want her to have too much time where interest may drop.
The main goal of the first call should just be about setting up the date anyway; as is preached on this site. This has worked great for me up to this point and I've noticed my success rate has improved by doing this.
This is my method. I'm relatively new here so if this has been posted before and I'm beating a dead horse then I apologize. Hope it is useful nontheless.
