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Recent content by CHICAGO27

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    Envy and Gratitude

    Focus Good post! Being tall and good-looking isn't always the be all end all. I'm 6'5, athletic and good-looking and women still find things wrong with me. LOL. I guess we all could focus on what we don't have (for me: parents who can hand me money for a house, high-paying job) or be grateful...
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    Katie Cleary's Husband Commits Suicide

    http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/gossip/katie-cleary-husband-commits-suicide-article-1.1842582 Apparently she was hanging with Leonardo DiCaprio and Adrian Grenier. I wonder if he met her before she won America's Top Model? Hypergamy to blame?
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    Emotional Value, Alpha Dumping and Women

    Right on Desdinova... I think that is why it is so crucial for guys to understand how the game works and how it works against you as you get older. Once women pile up experiences you will be competing against those 3,000 hitters. That is why it is important not to put so much value into women...
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    Emotional Value, Alpha Dumping and Women

    Gentleman, One of the things that we need to be aware of when dating is the level of emotional value a woman still has invested in an ex boyfriend. This value, in essence, varies dependent on whether or not she dated an alpha or a beta in her last serious relationship. It's going to be...
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    Sometimes people are mentally f'ed up. Those people are broken from the getgo and there is nothing you can do to change them. I've dated my share of NPD's and BPD's and used to blame myself for their behavior and their disappearing acts. The tough thing is that this realization only comes...
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    Narcissistic Personality Disorder NPD

    NPD can be extremely damaging. In my case, I didn't recognize my ex was NPD until after the fact. She showed no empathy, very envious, wanted the best of everything (had to work out at the East Bank Club because of the status attached, friends all had to be of higher class), self loathing...
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    Narcissistic Personality Disorder NPD

    There are a ton of Borderline Personality Disorder BPD threads on SS. I was wondering if anyone has ever encountered or dated someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)? I dated a girl with NPD, plus BPD leanings for a year. It was a living hell! Besides the BPD issues we have all...
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    No Contact: The Highest Form of Strength and Self-Respect

    There are a lot of threads on this board about the theory of No Contact and how a man should practice this if a relationship ends badly. My personal belief is that No Contact is both the hardest and most rewarding thing a man can do for himself as he strives toward self-improvement. No Contact...
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    Seriously? No single moms EVER?

    Go knock yourself out! Just make sure you wear a jimmy hat!!!! Don't let her take care of the birth control!!!
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    Seriously? No single moms EVER?

    Let me ask you a question. Would you rather have a new or a used car? I think that answers your question...
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    I was about to set up a date this friday and her text turned me off

    Don't go out with her. From my dating experience, any woman who makes a comment like that prior to meeting is not looking to get to know you. She is looking for money. Looking for a free meal. She is the same type of women who is a mercenary. Rest assured, the only thing she cares about is what...
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    Married girl - thinking of divorce.

    Don't support her disloyal behavior. There are plenty of single, unmarried women out there.
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    Richard Sherman Incident

    This could go in the anything else section but there is some good lessons to be learned here. I disagree with the amount of flak Sherman has been receiving from the media for his rant after the NFC Championship game this weekend. He was in the moment and his testosterone was flowing...
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    Things Are Not Going To Change Until

    When the natural order erodes, so goes the civilization.
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    Things Are Not Going To Change Until

    "Take back our careers. Take back the jobs that have been lost to women and homosexuals. Reestablish the natural order that has existed for thousands of years." If a homosexual or a woman is more qualified than me to do a said job I will step aside gracefully. The problem I see, is that...