"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maybe if you talked to some old geezers instead of dancing you'd learn how to get laid by saying less. This is a sad thread.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Maybe if you talked to some old geezers instead of dancing you'd learn how to get laid by saying less. This is a sad thread.
Haha Is that supposed to make sense?
 
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It makes sense to everyone in the thread who gets laid, Plinco. I'm not going to argue with you again. It's sad that you're on the web writing essays about dancing, trying to get validated by a bunch of guys who just want you to stfu at this point since you refuse their advice anyways. Straight up, your texting is cringe AF and every woman can tell there's something off with your mental.

But hey, talk more and f*ck less if you think that'll get you what you want.
 
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It makes sense to everyone in the thread who gets laid, Plinco. I'm not going to argue with you again. It's sad that you're on the web writing essays about dancing, trying to get validated by a bunch of guys who just want you to stfu at this point since you refuse their advice anyways. Straight up, your texting is cringe AF and every woman can tell there's something off with your mental.

But hey, talk more and f*ck less if you think that'll get you what you want.
A little late but well said. His attitude has changed a bit lately. Less talking and more action is needed for sure.
 

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It makes sense to everyone in the thread who gets laid, Plinco. I'm not going to argue with you again. It's sad that you're on the web writing essays about dancing, trying to get validated by a bunch of guys who just want you to stfu at this point since you refuse their advice anyways.
Haha Is that supposed to make sense?
You see this? This is the response of someone who's not taking you seriously.

Straight up, your texting is cringe AF and every woman can tell there's something off with your mental.
It's a matter of me getting back into the game. I've done it before, lots of times, and I'll do it again.

You wanted to argue with me and I was doing you a favor. If you want to keep going then be my guest. I'll tear you to pieces

well said.
No it isn't.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You see this? This is the response of someone who's not taking you seriously.



It's a matter of me getting back into the game. I've done it before, lots of times, and I'll do it again.

You wanted to argue with me and I was doing you a favor. If you want to keep going then be my guest. I'll tear you to pieces



No it isn't.
I’m not doing this again.
 

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It makes sense to everyone in the thread who gets laid, Plinco. I'm not going to argue with you again. It's sad that you're on the web writing essays about dancing, trying to get validated by a bunch of guys who just want you to stfu at this point since you refuse their advice anyways. Straight up, your texting is cringe AF and every woman can tell there's something off with your mental.

But hey, talk more and f*ck less if you think that'll get you what you want.
 

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Spending too much time thinking, and not enough time doing, is spinning your wheels and not going forward.

Having said that, being a decent dancer is attractive to most sane women. Taking some dance lessons isn't a bad idea if you really want to learn to dance.
 

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Spending too much time thinking, and not enough time doing, is spinning your wheels and not going forward.

Having said that, being a decent dancer is attractive to most sane women. Taking some dance lessons isn't a bad idea if you really want to learn to dance.
I agree with what you said. There's more going on than meets the eye; I haven't been posting everything that I have going on. Hopefully I'll be meeting a cute girl on Sunday for coffee.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm not going to argue with you again.
Set and setting...

You see this? This is the response of someone who's not taking you seriously.
Yes, that's why I think you're a hopelessly stupid a**hole and stopped giving you serious advice.


A little late but well said. His attitude has changed a bit lately. Less talking and more action is needed for sure.
Thank God someone got through to him.


I’m not doing this again.
Remember he was the one who wanted to argue with me
Lmfao, nevermind. Trying to get validation and control through a one sided argument yet again. That's still woman behavior dude. They sense it, and it turns them off.

Plinco, you should reflect on this because my predictions determine your actions like clockwork. There's a certain logic to your egocentric mania and you've already been given all the resources you need to understand it. The question is whether you're intelligent enough to do the meta-reasoning.

Good luck.
 
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I agree with what you said. There's more going on than meets the eye; I haven't been posting everything that I have going on. Hopefully I'll be meeting a cute girl on Sunday for coffee.
Sunday for coffee...

I mean why would you choose this day/activity as a date?

There is something called setting yourself up for failure and this is essentially what this date selection is.
 

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Sunday for coffee...

I mean why would you choose this day/activity as a date?

There is something called setting yourself up for failure and this is essentially what this date selection is.
Why would this be setting it up for failure? If she likes me enough then what difference would it make what day it is?
 

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Set and setting...


Yes, that's why I think you're a hopelessly stupid a**hole and stopped giving you serious advice.



Thank God someone got through to him.




Lmfao, nevermind. Trying to get validation and control through a one sided argument yet again. That's still woman behavior dude. They sense it, and it turns them off.

Plinco, you should reflect on this because my predictions determine your actions like clockwork. There's a certain logic to your egocentric mania and you've already been given all the resources you need to understand it. The question is whether you're intelligent enough to do the meta-reasoning.

Good luck.
I looked at your so called sources and it had basically nothing to do with our discussion. The caterpillar experiment was a little interesting but that has nothing to do with human cognition. I gave you a list of sources that I'll be willing to bet that you didn't look into. I get a sense that you're not taking my input seriously. So why would I take your input seriously? I'm waiting for you to say something insightful.

I love these debates. It challenges ideas and opens doors that wouldn't open in people's bubbles.

The so called sources you given, and your accusations, show that so far you're in no position to lecture me.

Maybe at some point you can show me something that I didn't know already. Relax and enjoy the experience
 

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Why would this be setting it up for failure? If she likes me enough then what difference would it make what day it is?
Part of her liking you is the energy and the vibe being around you and choosing Sunday and coffee are two of the lowest energy plays you could do. And you stacked them together.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Part of her liking you is the energy and the vibe being around you and choosing Sunday and coffee are two of the lowest energy plays you could do. And you stacked them together.
I’ve told Plinco that if he were to have any success with the women, he has to go after women who like him, and show interest towards him, not the other way around. If he met this girl offline and she liked him, then there’s a good chance he’s set.

If a woman dislikes you, you will not change her mind. GGS
 

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Part of her liking you is the energy and the vibe being around you and choosing Sunday and coffee are two of the lowest energy plays you could do. And you stacked them together.
I don't know if I agree with that but I'll keep that in mind. Thanks

I’ve told Plinco that if he were to have any success with the women, he has to go after women who like him, and show interest towards him, not the other way around. If he met this girl offline and she liked him, then there’s a good chance he’s set.

If a woman dislikes you, you will not change her mind. GGS
Yeah but I got to like them first. I get women in their 30's flirting with me but I don't make anything of that because I want a girlfriend and not a mommy.
 
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Well that goes without saying. Make sure the girl you like also likes you. Don’t be a dummy and go after a woman who doesn’t like you.
I’ll also add that all the time I get with women, I don’t necessarily like them at first. In this day and age, there‘s no shortage of beautiful women. There’s no guarantee I’m going to get with every single girl I meet.

The mindset I have when I go out is sure I’ll approach, but it’s whatever. Maybe I won’t approach, who cares. I’ve told you before that my people reading skills are extremely high. Say I’ll approach a girl I like, and within 5-10 minutes I’ll know if the girl is into me or not. I’ll move on if they’re not interested.

I’ve had women approach me who I didn’t really care for. They were beautiful, but that doesn’t mean anything to me. I socialize with them to figure out their personality, and depending on who they are, I’ll take a liking to them or not.
 

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@Plinco the thing you keep missing, intentionally I'm sure due to your ego issue, is that what you think doesn't matter. What she thinks does. And we're better judges of that than you which is why you create these threads.

@BackInTheGame78 is right. An attractive woman is infinitely more excited by Friday night drinks (which can easily lead to sex on the first meeting) than Sunday coffee (less likely). Imagine inviting her for drinks to your place - the probability of sex is near 100% if she accepts.

Women are aware of this and hence reserve those opportunities for the men they are most attracted to. You should at least plan spicy dates to gauge her interest. If you can only ever get Sunday coffee something is wrong.

I’ve told you before that my people reading skills are extremely high. Say I’ll approach a girl I like, and within 5-10 minutes I’ll know if the girl is into me or not. I’ll move on if they’re not interested.
Literally this. The type of date you plan and how you interact with her let's you get a read. She knows that too. Failing in this area is the easiest way to let her know you're not actually smooth/high EQ. And unfortunately, that's what really gets the pvssy wet.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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