Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Maybe if you talked to some old geezers instead of dancing you'd learn how to get laid by saying less. This is a sad thread.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maybe if you talked to some old geezers instead of dancing you'd learn how to get laid by saying less. This is a sad thread.
Haha Is that supposed to make sense?
 
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It makes sense to everyone in the thread who gets laid, Plinco. I'm not going to argue with you again. It's sad that you're on the web writing essays about dancing, trying to get validated by a bunch of guys who just want you to stfu at this point since you refuse their advice anyways. Straight up, your texting is cringe AF and every woman can tell there's something off with your mental.

But hey, talk more and f*ck less if you think that'll get you what you want.
 
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It makes sense to everyone in the thread who gets laid, Plinco. I'm not going to argue with you again. It's sad that you're on the web writing essays about dancing, trying to get validated by a bunch of guys who just want you to stfu at this point since you refuse their advice anyways. Straight up, your texting is cringe AF and every woman can tell there's something off with your mental.

But hey, talk more and f*ck less if you think that'll get you what you want.
A little late but well said. His attitude has changed a bit lately. Less talking and more action is needed for sure.
 

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It makes sense to everyone in the thread who gets laid, Plinco. I'm not going to argue with you again. It's sad that you're on the web writing essays about dancing, trying to get validated by a bunch of guys who just want you to stfu at this point since you refuse their advice anyways.
Haha Is that supposed to make sense?
You see this? This is the response of someone who's not taking you seriously.

Straight up, your texting is cringe AF and every woman can tell there's something off with your mental.
It's a matter of me getting back into the game. I've done it before, lots of times, and I'll do it again.

You wanted to argue with me and I was doing you a favor. If you want to keep going then be my guest. I'll tear you to pieces

well said.
No it isn't.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You see this? This is the response of someone who's not taking you seriously.



It's a matter of me getting back into the game. I've done it before, lots of times, and I'll do it again.

You wanted to argue with me and I was doing you a favor. If you want to keep going then be my guest. I'll tear you to pieces



No it isn't.
I’m not doing this again.
 

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It makes sense to everyone in the thread who gets laid, Plinco. I'm not going to argue with you again. It's sad that you're on the web writing essays about dancing, trying to get validated by a bunch of guys who just want you to stfu at this point since you refuse their advice anyways. Straight up, your texting is cringe AF and every woman can tell there's something off with your mental.

But hey, talk more and f*ck less if you think that'll get you what you want.
 

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Spending too much time thinking, and not enough time doing, is spinning your wheels and not going forward.

Having said that, being a decent dancer is attractive to most sane women. Taking some dance lessons isn't a bad idea if you really want to learn to dance.
 

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Spending too much time thinking, and not enough time doing, is spinning your wheels and not going forward.

Having said that, being a decent dancer is attractive to most sane women. Taking some dance lessons isn't a bad idea if you really want to learn to dance.
I agree with what you said. There's more going on than meets the eye; I haven't been posting everything that I have going on. Hopefully I'll be meeting a cute girl on Sunday for coffee.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm not going to argue with you again.
Set and setting...

You see this? This is the response of someone who's not taking you seriously.
Yes, that's why I think you're a hopelessly stupid a**hole and stopped giving you serious advice.


A little late but well said. His attitude has changed a bit lately. Less talking and more action is needed for sure.
Thank God someone got through to him.


I’m not doing this again.
Remember he was the one who wanted to argue with me
Lmfao, nevermind. Trying to get validation and control through a one sided argument yet again. That's still woman behavior dude. They sense it, and it turns them off.

Plinco, you should reflect on this because my predictions determine your actions like clockwork. There's a certain logic to your egocentric mania and you've already been given all the resources you need to understand it. The question is whether you're intelligent enough to do the meta-reasoning.

Good luck.
 
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I agree with what you said. There's more going on than meets the eye; I haven't been posting everything that I have going on. Hopefully I'll be meeting a cute girl on Sunday for coffee.
Sunday for coffee...

I mean why would you choose this day/activity as a date?

There is something called setting yourself up for failure and this is essentially what this date selection is.
 

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Sunday for coffee...

I mean why would you choose this day/activity as a date?

There is something called setting yourself up for failure and this is essentially what this date selection is.
Why would this be setting it up for failure? If she likes me enough then what difference would it make what day it is?
 

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Set and setting...


Yes, that's why I think you're a hopelessly stupid a**hole and stopped giving you serious advice.



Thank God someone got through to him.




Lmfao, nevermind. Trying to get validation and control through a one sided argument yet again. That's still woman behavior dude. They sense it, and it turns them off.

Plinco, you should reflect on this because my predictions determine your actions like clockwork. There's a certain logic to your egocentric mania and you've already been given all the resources you need to understand it. The question is whether you're intelligent enough to do the meta-reasoning.

Good luck.
I looked at your so called sources and it had basically nothing to do with our discussion. The caterpillar experiment was a little interesting but that has nothing to do with human cognition. I gave you a list of sources that I'll be willing to bet that you didn't look into. I get a sense that you're not taking my input seriously. So why would I take your input seriously? I'm waiting for you to say something insightful.

I love these debates. It challenges ideas and opens doors that wouldn't open in people's bubbles.

The so called sources you given, and your accusations, show that so far you're in no position to lecture me.

Maybe at some point you can show me something that I didn't know already. Relax and enjoy the experience
 

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Why would this be setting it up for failure? If she likes me enough then what difference would it make what day it is?
Part of her liking you is the energy and the vibe being around you and choosing Sunday and coffee are two of the lowest energy plays you could do. And you stacked them together.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Part of her liking you is the energy and the vibe being around you and choosing Sunday and coffee are two of the lowest energy plays you could do. And you stacked them together.
I’ve told Plinco that if he were to have any success with the women, he has to go after women who like him, and show interest towards him, not the other way around. If he met this girl offline and she liked him, then there’s a good chance he’s set.

If a woman dislikes you, you will not change her mind. GGS
 

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Part of her liking you is the energy and the vibe being around you and choosing Sunday and coffee are two of the lowest energy plays you could do. And you stacked them together.
I don't know if I agree with that but I'll keep that in mind. Thanks

I’ve told Plinco that if he were to have any success with the women, he has to go after women who like him, and show interest towards him, not the other way around. If he met this girl offline and she liked him, then there’s a good chance he’s set.

If a woman dislikes you, you will not change her mind. GGS
Yeah but I got to like them first. I get women in their 30's flirting with me but I don't make anything of that because I want a girlfriend and not a mommy.
 
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Well that goes without saying. Make sure the girl you like also likes you. Don’t be a dummy and go after a woman who doesn’t like you.
I’ll also add that all the time I get with women, I don’t necessarily like them at first. In this day and age, there‘s no shortage of beautiful women. There’s no guarantee I’m going to get with every single girl I meet.

The mindset I have when I go out is sure I’ll approach, but it’s whatever. Maybe I won’t approach, who cares. I’ve told you before that my people reading skills are extremely high. Say I’ll approach a girl I like, and within 5-10 minutes I’ll know if the girl is into me or not. I’ll move on if they’re not interested.

I’ve had women approach me who I didn’t really care for. They were beautiful, but that doesn’t mean anything to me. I socialize with them to figure out their personality, and depending on who they are, I’ll take a liking to them or not.
 

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@Plinco the thing you keep missing, intentionally I'm sure due to your ego issue, is that what you think doesn't matter. What she thinks does. And we're better judges of that than you which is why you create these threads.

@BackInTheGame78 is right. An attractive woman is infinitely more excited by Friday night drinks (which can easily lead to sex on the first meeting) than Sunday coffee (less likely). Imagine inviting her for drinks to your place - the probability of sex is near 100% if she accepts.

Women are aware of this and hence reserve those opportunities for the men they are most attracted to. You should at least plan spicy dates to gauge her interest. If you can only ever get Sunday coffee something is wrong.

I’ve told you before that my people reading skills are extremely high. Say I’ll approach a girl I like, and within 5-10 minutes I’ll know if the girl is into me or not. I’ll move on if they’re not interested.
Literally this. The type of date you plan and how you interact with her let's you get a read. She knows that too. Failing in this area is the easiest way to let her know you're not actually smooth/high EQ. And unfortunately, that's what really gets the pvssy wet.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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