Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Haha Is that supposed to make sense?Maybe if you talked to some old geezers instead of dancing you'd learn how to get laid by saying less. This is a sad thread.
A little late but well said. His attitude has changed a bit lately. Less talking and more action is needed for sure.It makes sense to everyone in the thread who gets laid, Plinco. I'm not going to argue with you again. It's sad that you're on the web writing essays about dancing, trying to get validated by a bunch of guys who just want you to stfu at this point since you refuse their advice anyways. Straight up, your texting is cringe AF and every woman can tell there's something off with your mental.
But hey, talk more and f*ck less if you think that'll get you what you want.
It makes sense to everyone in the thread who gets laid, Plinco. I'm not going to argue with you again. It's sad that you're on the web writing essays about dancing, trying to get validated by a bunch of guys who just want you to stfu at this point since you refuse their advice anyways.
You see this? This is the response of someone who's not taking you seriously.Haha Is that supposed to make sense?
It's a matter of me getting back into the game. I've done it before, lots of times, and I'll do it again.Straight up, your texting is cringe AF and every woman can tell there's something off with your mental.
No it isn't.well said.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I’m not doing this again.You see this? This is the response of someone who's not taking you seriously.
It's a matter of me getting back into the game. I've done it before, lots of times, and I'll do it again.
You wanted to argue with me and I was doing you a favor. If you want to keep going then be my guest. I'll tear you to pieces
No it isn't.
Remember he was the one who wanted to argue with me.I’m not doing this again.
It makes sense to everyone in the thread who gets laid, Plinco. I'm not going to argue with you again. It's sad that you're on the web writing essays about dancing, trying to get validated by a bunch of guys who just want you to stfu at this point since you refuse their advice anyways. Straight up, your texting is cringe AF and every woman can tell there's something off with your mental.
But hey, talk more and f*ck less if you think that'll get you what you want.
I agree with what you said. There's more going on than meets the eye; I haven't been posting everything that I have going on. Hopefully I'll be meeting a cute girl on Sunday for coffee.Spending too much time thinking, and not enough time doing, is spinning your wheels and not going forward.
Having said that, being a decent dancer is attractive to most sane women. Taking some dance lessons isn't a bad idea if you really want to learn to dance.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Set and setting...I'm not going to argue with you again.
Yes, that's why I think you're a hopelessly stupid a**hole and stopped giving you serious advice.You see this? This is the response of someone who's not taking you seriously.
Thank God someone got through to him.A little late but well said. His attitude has changed a bit lately. Less talking and more action is needed for sure.
I’m not doing this again.
Lmfao, nevermind. Trying to get validation and control through a one sided argument yet again. That's still woman behavior dude. They sense it, and it turns them off.Remember he was the one who wanted to argue with me
Sunday for coffee...I agree with what you said. There's more going on than meets the eye; I haven't been posting everything that I have going on. Hopefully I'll be meeting a cute girl on Sunday for coffee.
Why would this be setting it up for failure? If she likes me enough then what difference would it make what day it is?Sunday for coffee...
I mean why would you choose this day/activity as a date?
There is something called setting yourself up for failure and this is essentially what this date selection is.
I looked at your so called sources and it had basically nothing to do with our discussion. The caterpillar experiment was a little interesting but that has nothing to do with human cognition. I gave you a list of sources that I'll be willing to bet that you didn't look into. I get a sense that you're not taking my input seriously. So why would I take your input seriously? I'm waiting for you to say something insightful.Set and setting...
Yes, that's why I think you're a hopelessly stupid a**hole and stopped giving you serious advice.
Thank God someone got through to him.
Lmfao, nevermind. Trying to get validation and control through a one sided argument yet again. That's still woman behavior dude. They sense it, and it turns them off.
Plinco, you should reflect on this because my predictions determine your actions like clockwork. There's a certain logic to your egocentric mania and you've already been given all the resources you need to understand it. The question is whether you're intelligent enough to do the meta-reasoning.
Good luck.
Part of her liking you is the energy and the vibe being around you and choosing Sunday and coffee are two of the lowest energy plays you could do. And you stacked them together.Why would this be setting it up for failure? If she likes me enough then what difference would it make what day it is?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I’ve told Plinco that if he were to have any success with the women, he has to go after women who like him, and show interest towards him, not the other way around. If he met this girl offline and she liked him, then there’s a good chance he’s set.Part of her liking you is the energy and the vibe being around you and choosing Sunday and coffee are two of the lowest energy plays you could do. And you stacked them together.
I don't know if I agree with that but I'll keep that in mind. ThanksPart of her liking you is the energy and the vibe being around you and choosing Sunday and coffee are two of the lowest energy plays you could do. And you stacked them together.
Yeah but I got to like them first. I get women in their 30's flirting with me but I don't make anything of that because I want a girlfriend and not a mommy.I’ve told Plinco that if he were to have any success with the women, he has to go after women who like him, and show interest towards him, not the other way around. If he met this girl offline and she liked him, then there’s a good chance he’s set.
If a woman dislikes you, you will not change her mind. GGS
Well that goes without saying. Make sure the girl you like also likes you. Don’t be a dummy and go after a woman who doesn’t like you.Yeah but I got to like them first.
I’ll also add that all the time I get with women, I don’t necessarily like them at first. In this day and age, there‘s no shortage of beautiful women. There’s no guarantee I’m going to get with every single girl I meet.Well that goes without saying. Make sure the girl you like also likes you. Don’t be a dummy and go after a woman who doesn’t like you.
Literally this. The type of date you plan and how you interact with her let's you get a read. She knows that too. Failing in this area is the easiest way to let her know you're not actually smooth/high EQ. And unfortunately, that's what really gets the pvssy wet.I’ve told you before that my people reading skills are extremely high. Say I’ll approach a girl I like, and within 5-10 minutes I’ll know if the girl is into me or not. I’ll move on if they’re not interested.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.