CyrusTheGreat
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This is way too low man. You need to see a professional and get on TRT asap. Also my guess is that this relationship has taken a toll on your t levels.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
LTR - Not sure how to handle this issue.....
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Free_Agent
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I hear you. I went to one clinic and they use solely pellets. As I read more, I'm leaning towards injections. Thant might necessitate me finding another clinic.
I wouldn't doubt it. I'm too messed up with this current situation.
Free_Agent
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Just wanted to post a little update. Been working on myself. Started on TRT about a week ago. Still with the LTR. Went to PR together. Still have trip planned for Costa Rica but I'm having second thoughts on even bringing her. Things have been going smooth, albeit her what always has seemed aloofness or low interest level possibly.
Do know that her ex bought her a $600 xmas gift and she got him a few things maybe totaling $150 and she got me....a bag of mixed chocolates so that's that..
Do know that her ex bought her a $600 xmas gift and she got him a few things maybe totaling $150 and she got me....a bag of mixed chocolates so that's that..
CyrusTheGreat
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Good to hear that you have started improving yourself. But sorry to hear the rest of the story man. She's playing both you and the ex. I hope you can cut your losses sooner than later.
I've seen this scenario as a third person, where I was friend with a woman who had kept her ex and a friend of mine on the hook.
One of guys was like her main bf and the other was more like the back up plan. She just paid enough attention to both of them to keep them spinning.
This was back in my blue pill days and I rationalised her behaviour according to her reasoning even though it made me feel sick of her and pity for both of the guys.
I've seen this scenario as a third person, where I was friend with a woman who had kept her ex and a friend of mine on the hook.
One of guys was like her main bf and the other was more like the back up plan. She just paid enough attention to both of them to keep them spinning.
This was back in my blue pill days and I rationalised her behaviour according to her reasoning even though it made me feel sick of her and pity for both of the guys.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Free_Agent
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Yep. Just this past one.
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I did pellets for a while...didn't really like getting sliced open and stitched up every 3 months. Even tho it's minimal it still hurts for 3 or 4 days and depending on how you are sitting it can be irritating. Was expensive too because insurance doesn't cover it.
I prefer injections although that's a pain in the ass to do every 5 days sometimes and there are times I forget. Put it in my calendar now with multitudes of reminders so that's better.
I do subQ versus IM, easier to do on your own and just as effective.