ThisIsSparta
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Keep in mind that option 1 will potentially open up a whole new set of issues for you.Thanks everyone for the help. I need to work on myself quite a bit. I'm in sad shape when I should't be. I've never been like this in my life.
I guess these are my options....
1. Like Cyrus mentioned - Explain to her that this trip is a breach of my boundary and I'm are not ok with it. Leave it at that and see what she does. If she goes I can decide to tell her have a nice life or mentally detach and continue sleeping with her while I cultivate new prospects. I'd like to maintain at least a sexual partner while I improve but I know that it may be damn near impossible given my personal issues here. Basically plate her and see if she accepts it.
2. Just openly tell her that the relationship will not work out and wish her the best. This is the best option given myself and the improvements I need to make coupled with the person I'm dealing with.
I know 2 is what I probably should do for my mental sanity but I know I'll probably wind up doing 1 due to what I said there.
Thanks everyone
If you tell her not to leave and not offer any immediate(!) consequenzes she will lose (even more?) respect for you.
Also, you will openly have to settle with being a cuck. You know, she knows, "gay" friend knows and god knows who else.
If you dont have a clear cut, this will eat up your soul.