"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So my secretary came to my house... part end

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What is the situation with your plates? Are you fvcking them? Be fair to yourself
 

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She a pro time waster. That time and attention of yours is so valueable to her. She probably got "juiced up" on your energy, and bounced and went back to fvck her boyfriend.
so much validation from me because of my status... but goes to fvck the cheating boyfriend. Told you it’s over made my move and got My answer
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What "status" exactly?
I have a 1,5 million euro turnover business, bought a 500K storage center last week. Got a 25K bmw and rent a penthouse in the center. Dress well, smell well, all my clients and fabrics love me and call me all day visit with gifts. I have 6 people working for me... should i keep going?
 

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I have a 1,5 million euro turnover business, bought a 500K storage center last week. Got a 25K bmw and rent a penthouse in the center. Dress well, smell well, all my clients and fabrics love me and call me all day visit with gifts. I have 6 people working for me... should i keep going?
it is not about the validation , it is about her wanting something specific from you , in this case the money :)

if you do the math a bmw per month is 300-400 euros . An escort is like 200 euros per hour . It is not a bad deal for her to have a car ( that you own ) and you having her for 1-2 nights per week :)
 
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I have a 1,5 million euro turnover business, bought a 500K storage center last week. Got a 25K bmw and rent a penthouse in the center. Dress well, smell well, all my clients and fabrics love me and call me all day visit with gifts. I have 6 people working for me... should i keep going?
But yet you desperately chase a 20 year old employee who keeps playing you like a fiddle? Something doesn't add up.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have a 1,5 million euro turnover business, bought a 500K storage center last week. Got a 25K bmw and rent a penthouse in the center. Dress well, smell well, all my clients and fabrics love me and call me all day visit with gifts. I have 6 people working for me... should i keep going?
How come girls don't run after you since you have status and money? If they do then you wouldn't be so hung up with this one who is trash.
 

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How come girls don't run after you since you have status and money? If they do then you wouldn't be so hung up with this one who is trash.
wealth makes the pus$y wet only if you are spending it like blizerian and other people like him . Basically having a vogue magazine life .

one expensive car or an expensive home does not make the V wet
 

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This is so tricky, if your really professional give some advice. She’s coming to work Saturday
why? we told you already but its not what you want to heard, I told you this scene is like what did happen to me, diference was I didn't had this site, I found this forum because of her, but then again go on, the results I already know, even if you did finally after wasting so much time on her you did have sex with her, then another set of problems will happen
 

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Because I’m so dominant and the slvt is ****ing crazy in bed I can sense it feel it she is open minded and soooooooo submissive which turns me on which heats me up. I just want to fvck her that’s it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wealth makes the pus$y wet only if you are spending it like blizerian and other people like him . Basically having a vogue magazine life .

one expensive car or an expensive home does not make the V wet
When guy have big status and bank account, even if you hide in a sh1thole girls will find a way to get to you. It's how things work.
 

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people that have money are so used to have it like they want that they ignore things till madness .

look at his last message :)
He came back to his senses. He wants her to see him as he is. She chooses not to, her choice.
 

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When guy have big status and bank account, even if you hide in a sh1thole girls will find a way to get to you. It's how things work.
but this does not mean that they will also sleep with you :)

or they will sleep with you as part of an arrangement , like you buy me this I will come at your place

Money alone is not an Afrodisiac
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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