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So my secretary came to my house... part end

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I beg to disagree mate , really good sex is very difficult to get , but it is worth the pursuit .

but I agree , if you have to self destruct yourself for good pus$y it is not worth it
Not really...men have the ability to make it really good by taking control and putting them in whatever positions you want.

Don't allow women to dictate whether the sex is good or not. Make it good.
 

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Not really...men have the ability to make it really good by taking control and putting them in whatever positions you want.

Don't allow women to dictate whether the sex is good or not. Make it good.
it was not about the positions or whatever , it was the way she was moving . True scholar of the sexual arts
 

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She's an "insult" to his ego, and if he persists, it will be his downfall.
I disagree. OPs actions have been consistently less than desirable for years. This chick just brought everything to light.

Women can't make a man act like this unless it's in him to do so, and he allows a woman to drag him along like she did.
 

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I disagree. OPs actions have been consistently less than desirable for years. This chick just brought everything to light.

Women can't make a man act like this unless it's in him to do so, and he allows a woman to drag him along like she did.
It takes a lot of continue effort over the years for someone to reach a bad or a good place , rarely something just happens
 

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Because I’m so dominant and the slvt is ****ing crazy in bed I can sense it feel it she is open minded and soooooooo submissive which turns me on which heats me up. I just want to fvck her that’s it
Then do the Alpha thing and Tell Her...It's time to **** or get off the pot!

(Think about this carefully because you know your situation better than anyone else)
What's the worst that could happen?
 

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I pride myself on being a male version of that. And the sex will be amazing with or without her having skills :p
well you know sex is a skill like any other, to be good at it you need to practice, be willing to lead, and trying to hit certain spots, so if a girl is that good I hope you really used a condom
 

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There are a lot of business owners in this world. Do you think they all have younger women chasing them? No.

There are lots of guys driving BMWs. Do they all have younger women chasing them? No.

Status doesn't equal just having a little money or a decent car. Its actually FAR from it.

You also really like to portray yourself into something that you're not. A major sign of insecurity.

I own 3 businesses. I have 2 new vehicles. A nice house. A decent amount of property (80 acres). To of which does me little good with women.

High value women (which the chick you have been chasing is NOT btw) don't care if you have a nice car. She will have one also. She will not be impressed with things she can easily have if she wanted them.

High value women are more attracted to confidence. Wit. Attraction. Mystery. Someone who knows what they want and is direct about it. Man who makes moves to get what he wants.

I don't see that in a lot of your posts. I see jealousy. Someone who chases. Someone who uses material things as tools at which women should be drawn to.
Its like Richard the Frog and his Lamborghini idea. Ever wonder would happen if he had one and managed to get a high value woman in it? Nothing. Because the car can't escalate. The car can't talk to a woman. The car can't be confident and witty. It would have never gotten past her checking out the car.

I would advise you to reread all the threads you've created over this chick and see how beta your actions were/are. Your actions are a reflection of your "status".

Men with lots of options of high value women have "status" because they have a high SMV. They don't act like this. They have an abundance mindset. They don't chase a chick for MONTHS. They don't create thread after thread about a chick.

Your actions show beta, not alpha. And I've said many times on here that I believe when a poster acts like this on this forum, its 10x worse in real life interactions with women. That's because women can sniff out beta behavior.

What was this chick going to say? I'm wasting your time and your beta? She works for you. She plays you with zero sexual intent because it benefits her. And because you continue to allow it.

Again, not attacking you personally, but you asked for input and I'm giving it to you.
PRRRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAACH
 

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So we set the appointment and she came and brung beer for the “house warming”.

This afternoon at work she already said my boyfriends father is birthday tonight so I have to show my face there at 9ish. I said ok and it felt as a huge red flag ofc. She tried to come 7;30 but I said no 8 is good. Someone bring her instead of her coming on bike like she said.

She came and I treated it at a date, going on private questions, light subjects and some cex subjects like asking her the weirdest spots where she had cex and stuff.

I didn’t want to make it akward or dangerous for me as her employer so I didn’t go agressive. Time passed so quick, it was 9 before you could imagine, she said wow time flied. We talked about most crazy stuff we did, crazy spots we had cex and so on. She asked me how I’m doing with my plate since she knows I have options.

I said “what kind of man do you find attractive”

She said alpha males. I said what is that to test her. She said, a man that stands is ground and knows what he wants. I said Am I alpha lol?

She said “ yes you are 100% alpha having your business and sh^t together and standing your ground”

I was just getting her to warm up and figured if after 9 she didn’t leave I would ask her to sit close to me and escalate but then...
I was just getting her to warm up and figured if after 9 she didn’t leave I would ask her to sit close to me and escalate but then...

Her boyfriend called at 9, “hey I’m in front come outside”

My gut feeling; she is a cobra trying to string me along, trying to keep me on a leash, trying to play her boyfriend telling him I invited her over but stil being loyal to him. Just to make him jealous. I feel used.

Still good that I made my move and finally see her real intensions.

Don’t hate, respect me for being out there!

Anyway she said “ do I see you Saturday?” Like am I welcome to come to work. She knew that I was down to fvck and that she blew me off so she asked to see if I was mad. I said ye sure see you Saturday.

she thanked me and left. It is what it is. Tell me your thoughts.

Lmao. What a egotistical attention *****. Let her bf deal with her crap, not you. Why u even stressing this **** tease who already has a bf? A real alpha wouldn't give this chick any of his time imo besides strictly work related discussions.
 

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I beg to disagree mate , really good sex is very difficult to get , but it is worth the pursuit .

but I agree , if you have to self destruct yourself for good pus$y it is not worth it
There is "good pvssy" for sure, but it's never worth damaging your life over.
 

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the sex was amazing , and when I was having a day and then having sex with her , by miracle all the bad things went away . It was like she would exorcise all the bad vibes and emotions from me .

and to give you an idea , she was using porn movies as a way to improve her movements and stuff like that . True scholar :)
understood sir
 

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Not really...men have the ability to make it really good by taking control and putting them in whatever positions you want.

Don't allow women to dictate whether the sex is good or not. Make it good.
+1 on this - "Golden Pvssy" is the honeypot I can beat up and satisfy so good and so often the female gives me the Gold!
 

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There are a lot of business owners in this world. Do you think they all have younger women chasing them? No.

There are lots of guys driving BMWs. Do they all have younger women chasing them? No.

Status doesn't equal just having a little money or a decent car. Its actually FAR from it.

You also really like to portray yourself into something that you're not. A major sign of insecurity.

I own 3 businesses. I have 2 new vehicles. A nice house. A decent amount of property (80 acres). To of which does me little good with women.

High value women (which the chick you have been chasing is NOT btw) don't care if you have a nice car. She will have one also. She will not be impressed with things she can easily have if she wanted them.

High value women are more attracted to confidence. Wit. Attraction. Mystery. Someone who knows what they want and is direct about it. Man who makes moves to get what he wants.

I don't see that in a lot of your posts. I see jealousy. Someone who chases. Someone who uses material things as tools at which women should be drawn to.
Its like Richard the Frog and his Lamborghini idea. Ever wonder would happen if he had one and managed to get a high value woman in it? Nothing. Because the car can't escalate. The car can't talk to a woman. The car can't be confident and witty. It would have never gotten past her checking out the car.

I would advise you to reread all the threads you've created over this chick and see how beta your actions were/are. Your actions are a reflection of your "status".

Men with lots of options of high value women have "status" because they have a high SMV. They don't act like this. They have an abundance mindset. They don't chase a chick for MONTHS. They don't create thread after thread about a chick.

Your actions show beta, not alpha. And I've said many times on here that I believe when a poster acts like this on this forum, its 10x worse in real life interactions with women. That's because women can sniff out beta behavior.

What was this chick going to say? I'm wasting your time and your beta? She works for you. She plays you with zero sexual intent because it benefits her. And because you continue to allow it.

Again, not attacking you personally, but you asked for input and I'm giving it to you.
Its true that I’m chasing a time waster and that’s not alpha behavior.

The rest you write is crap saying I’m insecure. Insecure people can’t own succesfull business’ @classguy.
 

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Its true that I’m chasing a time waster and that’s not alpha behavior.

The rest you write is crap saying I’m insecure. Insecure people can’t own succesfull business’ @classguy.
actually all of this highly successfully people that we see are actually very beta .

the lick the ass of those who are above or at the same level , and are “alpha “ with the people below .

owning a successful business just means that you are good at prostituting yourself for money , which is a really useful skill to have but not enough to get the girls . You need to actually be a cool person to attract women
 

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actually all of this highly successfully people that we see are actually very beta .

the lick the ass of those who are above or at the same level , and are “alpha “ with the people below .

owning a successful business just means that you are good at prostituting yourself for money , which is a really useful skill to have but not enough to get the girls . You need to actually be a cool person to attract women
yes and I am. And I don’t lick as, I work together with people so both parties benefit. We don’t lick ases we negotiate and make money. I think classguy doesn’t like me, and that’s okay.
 

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Lmao. What a egotistical attention *****. Let her bf deal with her crap, not you. Why u even stressing this **** tease who already has a bf? A real alpha wouldn't give this chick any of his time imo besides strictly work related discussions.
Her ex cheated on her months ago, she gives strong iois and tells me she’s loneley and we vibe a lot. At this point I could’ve fvcked her but didn’t want to. She gets back with her ex later and then I start to like her.

I go professional and she keeps flirting with me, cexual vibes, teasing hard eachother. I finally ask her to come over and she sees it as a house warming. She gives a huge red Flagg saying that her bf is picking her up at 9 so we only have 1 hour. She wanted to come earlier though at 7, I said no.

she comes over I go totally in romantic talk and cexual topics she gets warmed up and her ex comes to pick her up, it’s 9.

I need to go fully professional and move on. I was so caught up with work work work work work Corona work that I have 2 other options I can fvck whenever I want but they don’t interest me. My secretary is a ego thing I think.
 

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Still good that I made my move and finally see her real intensions.
I'm not going to bother talking you out of this anymore, you're dead set on continuing until it crashes and burns. Given this, what move did you make exactly? You never made a real move. Had I been talking about sex (this isn't a word censored by the forum software btw), she tells you she likes an alpha and she considers you 100% alpha then I would more or less just have tossed myself over her. What more hint do you need? It's like you'd even doubt it if she slid her pvssy down on your shaft.

Just go for it already so we can get to the end of this story. Your inaction and lack of decisiveness is making the entire board frustrated.
 

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I'm not going to bother talking you out of this anymore, you're dead set on continuing until it crashes and burns. Given this, what move did you make exactly? You never made a real move. Had I been talking about sex (this isn't a word censored by the forum software btw), she tells you she likes an alpha and she considers you 100% alpha then I would more or less just have tossed myself over her. What more hint do you need? It's like you'd even doubt it if she slid her pvssy down on your shaft.

Just go for it already so we can get to the end of this story. Your inaction and lack of decisiveness is making the entire board frustrated.
it is an ego thing , he has a super big ego and is afraid that she will hurt it . But is a stupid one because this kind of ego does not let you grow
 

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no only if she gives me clear signs like not having an appointment with boyfriend after me blocking me. That would suggest she is open for escalation. I even got her a bit warm and cosy and cexual heating topics When she says time flied, it’s 9 already and her bf rings (I heard him speak “I’m outside”)

l know enough.
The problem is that you're just talking about sex instead of doing it. In the end it comes down to that - it's all talk and no action. It doesn't matter what she says. You need to find out if she is genuinely interested and the only of way of doing that is through escalation. How she reacts to that will tell you the real truth in an instant.
 
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