You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Burn a few calories by getting that machine together.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Got him coming out on Monday 10am. I need muscle by summer.
How's it arriving? Turtle or carrier pigeon? I never seen exercise equipment take so long to arrive. Is it being pushed over here from China?
No, I have had the gym since Jan 6th. Remember, the pulley was broke? The installer noticed one of the pulleys was broke. He got some of it put together. I contacted ICON fitness and the part was on back order for weeks. Yes, a plastic pulley. So last week I finally got the part in. If that part was not broke I would have been lifting for a month now and getting some muscle. So I got delayed a month and a half. As you can see my chest is pretty flat. I just at least want some arm muscle so I look fuller and not as skinny but still have the slim chest until I get the abs built up.
How would you get fat when you run 5 miles a day? This is the second time you've said something that doesn't add up to the stories you tell us.... I'm on to you
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
How many people live in your town?
County is about 250k but during season it's probably 320k due to snowbirds.
I've heard of Weider, NordicTrack, Peloton, Marcy and Gold's. I've never heard of ICON Fitness. Why do you buy crap? All you need is steel. Nothing fancy. STEEL.
ICON owns the Golds Gym brand and name. Look it up and provides the service. So you mean if I quit going on OLD 3 hours a day and looking a the same post wall handfull of women everyday and worked out hardcore I'd be ripped? Yes, go on Match, etc. and for like the last year you see the same handful of post wall women. Even Bumble and Tinder the same chicks keep popping up. It's boring logging on OLD and not seeing new or younger blood.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I can't believe he's had some of you fooled for so long
It was a similar case with guys like bigdave and richardthefrog. It doesn't matter if these guys are trolls or completely helpless/autistic. They're the ones who seem to have the most problems but are too good to change anything, the ones who hijack the threads, and the ones who always NEED the attention but never give back. Yet, many of the guys that keep giving them advice have too good of a heart to just put their foot down and realize "yeah some people truly don't want help". Actions over words right? That should be viewed in general, for everyone, not just for women.
I feel like I’m barely entering my prime so I appreciate that bro
He's not an idiot, he's autistic / Aspergers. It's one of the reasons some of us try to help him. Though, I think most of us are tired of the runaround.
I mean is that legit or are we going off of tendency? Because if that is medically diagnosed I take back what I said.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Still its a waste of time imo, it was same with Bigdave.
He was arguing his strategy which he refused to adjust.
Yep he is not here to learn but just to complain.
Pretty much as legit as one can be on a forum. He's not a bad guy, just special.
Since we've seen pics of Big Dave and Big Goal, we know they are not the same person. Big Dave was just a narcisist, BigGoal isn't one. Though, he does think he deserves a high caliber lady, when he himself isn't a high caliber dude yet.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.