The Diver
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Just turn 60 last monte
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Cleared it with the mods! A thread I’ve wanted to do for years. Post your real life picture let the community help fix your looks!(completely optiona)
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The Diver
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spot-on, Lol
I think since I started growing the beard I get less comment about my age. Without the beard, I have a baby face and look much younger, but I like the beard, it adds some years but also some carcter to my face, (in my opinion, and others).
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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CBear
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Serenity
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I'll just throw this in here. I don't have as much muscle as many of you, but can't say I'm struggling with women. I've started going to the gym recently though. I'm 28.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
You look a lot like someone ik bro so that’s why. Are you Russian per chance? And does your name start with an S?
Look amazing at 46 man
Man you look good, but you look 15
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
Need to fix those teeth!
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
You've said ALL of us look good. You talk to us just like your girls!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
CBear
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Ah ok. Don't want to reveal more than I have but I'm eastern european. Name doesn't start with an S.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Alright jw. I knew a dude who looked pretty close to you, went to UIC and was ~same age as you so that’s why I ask
redskinsfan92
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Helped me out
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Aight **** it, it’s time to either put up or shut up. But Imma prolly ask the mods to delete this **** later on cuz I still want to be anon.
Just gonna warn y’all ahead of time that I can look ugly or goodlooking depending. Here’s the ugly ones first, I just took them right now lol:
Just gonna warn y’all ahead of time that I can look ugly or goodlooking depending. Here’s the ugly ones first, I just took them right now lol:
BackInTheGame78
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No face pic but here is a nice drumstick 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Goodlooking pics:
Serenity
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True, I do look young for my age, just like my father. I still occasionally get asked for ID. Not necessarily a disadvantage later in life.
I knew someone would comment that right away, lol! It never really bothered me and it's fairly expensive to fix it. Maybe some day, but not in the near future. I'm sure everyone notices it, but nobody has given me any incentive to go get it fixed and personally it very rarely crosses my mind that my teeth are that way. It doesn't seem to cause me any problems.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
These last ones were in August, but yeah I think these are my best. Still not sure if they’re *actually* good lol but whatever
Serenity
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@ImTheDoubleGreatest! Honestly I don't see much of a difference. Is it that your face looks rounder in your bad pictures? I'm unsure if it's the lighting or an actual difference in facial features?
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
SS doesn’t do videos for some reason so this is why I gotta do it here. But anyway, this was just now:
That noise in the background is chicken that I’m cooking btw in case anyone is wondering lol
That noise in the background is chicken that I’m cooking btw in case anyone is wondering lol
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.