I've seen first-hand how much being a Mystery turns girls on. Crazy how it works like that. But this aspect has been something that I've struggled with for a bit.
I know that when you're on a date, you're flirting, touching, and building rapport/comfort. But if you're building rapport by talking about things you have in common, how do you avoid killing the mystery? I've learned that killing the mystery is essentially a fast track to the friendzone.
Going on a date tomorrow, so I'd like to hear your opinions.
Say less.
Learn to spit game. Aim at seduction and attraction. Leave comfort to women and small children.
Comfort kills seduction. Yes, mystery in MM has a part and component following A3. I know. The problem is that, we've had 6 decades of feminism and cuck. What guys deem as comfort is not ideal nor about to increase SNL ratio. Don't do it.
Learn to fluff. Learn how to vibe. Learn how to flirt and seed seduction without trying to build comfort. Child-like humor. Self amuse. Being comfortable in your own skin buikds comfort.
There's social experiments. Women are comfortable but withhold sex. Spring break, same chick goes ass to mouth 10min after meeting playboy at the bar.
Seed micro esculation. EG, create space between you and the chicks friends. Any iso is comfy building. Less trying to build rapport. No trying to show you have **** in common.
Be low in agreeableness. High in conscientiousness. Indifference. Aloof. Nonchalant are your staples in game.
As for comfort, seek less. Focus flash game, SNL, ONS, fwb, etc.
Hold your mystery. You want her to invest. Her seeking info is investment and likely interest level. Again, esculate. Act accordingly. Push pull.
RooshV is 110% correct. If a woman pushes back, flake, cold, ****, etc next her.
Learn to banter. You are saying stuff but absolutely nothing. Play your hand. Run game but hold your cards mate.