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    What's your way of preventing flakes?

    Been getting a lot of flakes lately. Set up a date, girl bails an hour or two before with an "excuse". This has happened with the last 3 girls. This has happened all within the last week, so I'm not sure if it's just weird coincidence or if I'm doing something wrong. I don't feel like I've...
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    Ridiculous list of requirements on POF...hilarious

    Holy sh!t I just came across the most epic list of "requirements" on POF. This girl is like a 6 in looks. I bet so many white knights try to rescue her. She's ADD, OCD and bipolar... "Too much baggage? Well sucks to be you, since you obviously can't handle this much awesomeness. Ready to...
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    Plate never initiates contact, but always meets up when I contact

    I'm starting to think there are a batch of girls out there that don't initiate contact with guys, no matter what. A plate of mine doesn't text or call me out of the blue...ever. But, when I initiate "hey lets get drinks on Thurs", she will respond, show up and we will smash. 100% of the times...
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    Sex God Method

    Anyone read this ebook? Took me about an hour to read and really dives deep on how to have great sex. It explains a lot of things I knew already, but just didn't know how to put into practice. The author hit spot on what is holding me back from great sex: I am a bedroom technician. I try to...
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    Dropping Plates

    How do you guys go about dropping plates? I've been sleeping with one for a few weeks but she's getting too crazy. I honestly don't want to see her again. I am considering fading away with less and less attention. She hit me up Friday night and said "Don't make plans for Sat morning, I'm...
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    Can you trust girls that sleep with you right away?

    Chances are she does that with lots of guys right? I was talking to my friend about this today. Just curious what your opinions are of girls that will sleep with you within a few hours of meeting you. My friend prefers girls that will wait a couple dates to put out because it shows they...
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    Girls unequivocally dump men more often than men dump women

    Here is a great post from another forum on the topic of why girls dump guys more than guys dump girls. I think many of you will benefit from reading this. Here it is... Girls: They unequivocally dump men more often than men dump women. Why? Because their feelings change and often are...
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    Sleeping with multiple plates

    What do you guys think about sleeping with multiple plates (3+)? Like Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights back to back. My social conditioning makes me a little uncomfortable with it but I'm trying to rewire myself. Feels like I'm deceiving them because I haven't overtly told them. I...
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    Everyone has the time for someone they like

    Had an interesting revelation this morning that can span across all relationships: family, friends, LTRs. Think long and hard about the people in your life that you genuinely like. You make time for them in your life even if you are busy with work. Now if you think about someone that you...
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    Are you a day 1 or day 2 guy? (or 3+)

    Just curious what your style for picking up chicks is. I've found that I consistently do better if I end the first date on a good note and play it cool until the next date. Whenever I try to pull the same night I usually end up with some sort of resistance that I can't bypass. Even with...
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    35 yr old gave me her number...how to proceed?

    I'm 23 years old and she's 35. I met her through okcupid and we hit it off, talking about traveling and a bunch of other things. From her pictures it looks like she has an unbelievable body. After a few messages I asked for her phone number and she gladly gave it to me. In her message she...
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    *OFFICIAL* Tinder Thread

    Official Tinder thread here. Post your results on what works and what doesn't. If you actually want to date any of these girls, you're doing it wrong. Make sure to turn the conversation sexual to weed out the AW and non-dtf girls. Here's how I go about it: Man, it's fun to mess around...
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    Pre-emptively broke up with gf, now she wants closure

    Been dating this girl about a year. She's about 60 miles away so it's pretty much always been "long-distance" but easier than 300 miles away long distance. For about 11 months (up until January) she was always eager to see me, always texting calling. She would come up to see me almost every...
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    Anyone have a pdf of the Don Juan bible?

    Looking for a pdf. Couldn't find one with google searches...looks like the link expired. The online version is kind of a pain to navigate.
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    I fvck girls, but can't keep any good ones

    Long post, get ready. A little background: I have been reading DJ material for about 4 years and over the course of this time I've laid around 25 women and had a 2-year LTR. I'm also selective and only fvck the hottest I can find (a little shallow, I know). Getting girls is not the problem...
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    Showing affection to girlfriend

    If you're seeing a girl (6 months) and you're heading towards a relationship do you think it's more harmful or helpful to show affection every once in a while? I was burned by my last girlfriend (dumped on my ass...she has daddy issues), so I have this shield up about showing affection too...
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    Are all of the girls you meet online low quality?

    Have any of you met a quality girl online? Or do they all have some sort of problem? I am setting up a couple of dates but I can't tell if they are low quality because they use a dating site. I personally see myself as a catch, yet I just starting using OKcupid to add a couple plates. I'm...
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    Help Quitting Smoking

    Has anyone here successfully quit smoking cigarettes? I am only 22 but I smoke about 4 a day. I want to kick this habit as early as possible but I have already relapsed once. Your personal story or any e-books that helped would be much appreciated!
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    Exclusivity...who brings it up?

    What are your beliefs on who should ask to be exclusive? If the relationship is naturally progressing to exclusivity, would it be best to let her bring it up then say "You're my girl"?
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    Finally Realizing Quality over Quantity

    At 22 years old I am starting to understand that it is much more satisfying to hang out with a woman that is a well-rounded person. I realized that my whole life I have been gaming girls with emotional problems in some sort of a way (daddy issues, no job, attention wh0re, etc.) just because...
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