Recent content by dynamicallyidle

You should dump her, but the very act of you asking in these forums indicates to me that you' don't have enough of a spine to follow through with that.

Yeah, and when we're both in BATHING SUITS, it's a VERY noticeable addition to the convo.

I'm dead serious. The main reason I won't hold eye contact with a hot girl is because it gives me wood. My emotions are affected too intensely. And it is holding back my game, a lot. Any tips, ideas, or experiences on how to feel less affected during intense eye contact / smiling?

I'm curious what some of you guys would do in this situation. Would you just get right in the middle of that relationship? Would you just say "forget about it!" and find another single girl? Here are the various possibilities I see: 1) She is an attention ***** using me as male attention while...

She has a long distance relationship of whom she does not seem very certain.

The blatant AW's, I can spot a mile away, and stay away from them. Very far away. But what, in your opinion, are the signs of an attention *****?

I don't like the idea of "being on my guard" for an attention *****. I feel like a true DJ (and admittedly, I'm not there yet) would not fear being used by an attention ***** at all. There's something very defensive and wrong about the mentality imo.

A recent predicament I've run into: the chick who comes on too hard. She's TOO confident, even though she's showing blatant IOI's (like putting her hand on my chest as soon as she meets me, in that sort of seductive way). I almost feel like I have to knock her down a peg because I feel like a...

In response to the original post, GET A GRIP. What do you want to be? Regardless of whether you believe you can achieve it or not - KNOW what you want to be. KNOW what you want to do. Be true to your heart. And then start swimming. Yeah, swim. They say shoot for the moon, as if it is simply a...

I've been thinking I should be very open about the perv I am. When I see a moderately average woman, I instantly start undressing them with my eyes, and mutter to myself "daymmmmm." I'm so sick of not telling them what is on my mind. I want to walk up to the girl and say it at the top of my...

Very good list. I like how you repeat the most important, hardest-to-follow points.

"The Visible Erection Strategy"

This isn't the first time I've seen guys hate. I have Asian friends that are cool as ****. I want to tell you about this one Asian friend, Rod, who girls have told me is good-looking dude. He's the most laid back guy, and he pulls HB8-9 pretty often. Well, he pulled the hottest girl at my...

Tease her back: a little jealous anyone?? (smile) Actually, my advice is not to learn this line, but to change your mentality. Have fun with women. Try to lose the calculating vibe. Women can sense it and its creepy.

My advice is to keep trying. Don't think about it too much. Kudos for your bravery and actually getting out there. You your work and you'll have yourself a good girl some day.