Buddha_Mind
Master Don Juan
Are you crazy?Darth said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Wow, women ARE really sneaky!
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Thats pathetic. A chick just being a chick in a sea of AFCdom and you go and rat her out to some loser who has no affiliation to you whatsoever? Nice going mate, I see the term "survival of the fittest" is totally lost on you.Brighty said:
"Guy code" give me a break. Did he share this "guy code" you speak of and knock you out?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
well my ex-wife seeked out a guy on the net and slept with him shortly before we married (far as i can tell) and i would have been just fine with the guy telling me, albeit as shocking as it might have been to find out what an easy lay my 'darling' was it would have saved me a costly wedding and wasting the next 2 years with someone who was not marriageable in the first place. and yes she repeated this after marrying too, perhaps if she had had to face some consequences of the first time then she may have changed? hard to say but I think eventually the truth will out and its for the better, and the sooner the better
It boils down to 2 things.
If you want to be the guy that goes for other guy's women when there is a world full of single ones out there, then don't tell him and continue to play with the wh0re. Otherwise, leave her alone, and let her bf know if you want. Then let him deal with it in what ever way he sees fit.
It's totally up to you what you want to do. A man who has otions will kick her to the curb, but a desperate man with run around with her behind her bf's back.
If you want to be the guy that goes for other guy's women when there is a world full of single ones out there, then don't tell him and continue to play with the wh0re. Otherwise, leave her alone, and let her bf know if you want. Then let him deal with it in what ever way he sees fit.
It's totally up to you what you want to do. A man who has otions will kick her to the curb, but a desperate man with run around with her behind her bf's back.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Mavrick said:
They are all "other guys women", theres always some other guy orbiting in her life if she's half normal and decent looking, your particular set of morals youve decided to spew here only works if the guy happens to be out of touch with reality.You should probably cause more conflict. Maybe be really convinced of your own opinions a little more, too.( . )( . ) said:
Titties. You're taking this to serious. Yes I do have options but I want to explore all of them. If you find a 100$ bill on the grounds, you would probably take it even though it's "someone elses" and you have options to get money from elsewhere (lol lame comparison but it fits).
The difference now is that she might be pregnant with her BF. So I'm guessing that even though she's coming to my town in 2 weeks, I don't have a chance and frankly it doesn't bother me. I can f*uck another mans GF but I don't want to be blamed for the kid having a ****mark on his forehead when he gets born haha!
The difference now is that she might be pregnant with her BF. So I'm guessing that even though she's coming to my town in 2 weeks, I don't have a chance and frankly it doesn't bother me. I can f*uck another mans GF but I don't want to be blamed for the kid having a ****mark on his forehead when he gets born haha!