Buddha_Mind
Master Don Juan
Are you crazy?Darth said:First of all, the above poster (BuddaMind) = El Stud. I recognize his sentence structure.
Hi El STud.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Are you crazy?Darth said:First of all, the above poster (BuddaMind) = El Stud. I recognize his sentence structure.
Hi El STud.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Thats pathetic. A chick just being a chick in a sea of AFCdom and you go and rat her out to some loser who has no affiliation to you whatsoever? Nice going mate, I see the term "survival of the fittest" is totally lost on you.Brighty said:Been in that position before, and the day after I found out she had a boyfriend, I looked him up on facebook and sent him a message telling him that he's girlfriend is cheating on him and apologizing as I had no idea. There's one thing that I won't stand for and that really rubs me the wrong way is girls going behind their boyfriends' backs and the guy continuing to treat a slvt like a princess. Call it Guy code, call it Brighty code, whatever, even to total strangers I feel like any guy shouldn't get played like that.
Good to see you're back t!tties.( . )( . ) said:Thats pathetic. A chick just being a chick in a sea of AFCdom and you go and rat her out to some loser who has no affiliation to you whatsoever? Nice going mate, I see the term "survival of the fittest" is totally lost on you.
"Guy code" give me a break. Did he share this "guy code" you speak of and knock you out?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Mavrick said:It boils down to 2 things.
If you want to be the guy that goes for other guy's women when there is a world full of single ones out there, then don't tell him and continue to play with the wh0re. Otherwise, leave her alone, and let her bf know if you want. Then let him deal with it in what ever way he sees fit.
It's totally up to you what you want to do. A man who has otions will kick her to the curb, but a desperate man with run around with her behind her bf's back.
You should probably cause more conflict. Maybe be really convinced of your own opinions a little more, too.( . )( . ) said:They are all "other guys women", theres always some other guy orbiting in her life if she's half normal and decent looking, your particular set of morals youve decided to spew here only works if the guy happens to be out of touch with reality.