Buddha_Mind
Master Don Juan
Are you crazy?Darth said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Wow, women ARE really sneaky!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Thats pathetic. A chick just being a chick in a sea of AFCdom and you go and rat her out to some loser who has no affiliation to you whatsoever? Nice going mate, I see the term "survival of the fittest" is totally lost on you.Brighty said:
"Guy code" give me a break. Did he share this "guy code" you speak of and knock you out?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
well my ex-wife seeked out a guy on the net and slept with him shortly before we married (far as i can tell) and i would have been just fine with the guy telling me, albeit as shocking as it might have been to find out what an easy lay my 'darling' was it would have saved me a costly wedding and wasting the next 2 years with someone who was not marriageable in the first place. and yes she repeated this after marrying too, perhaps if she had had to face some consequences of the first time then she may have changed? hard to say but I think eventually the truth will out and its for the better, and the sooner the better
It boils down to 2 things.
If you want to be the guy that goes for other guy's women when there is a world full of single ones out there, then don't tell him and continue to play with the wh0re. Otherwise, leave her alone, and let her bf know if you want. Then let him deal with it in what ever way he sees fit.
It's totally up to you what you want to do. A man who has otions will kick her to the curb, but a desperate man with run around with her behind her bf's back.
If you want to be the guy that goes for other guy's women when there is a world full of single ones out there, then don't tell him and continue to play with the wh0re. Otherwise, leave her alone, and let her bf know if you want. Then let him deal with it in what ever way he sees fit.
It's totally up to you what you want to do. A man who has otions will kick her to the curb, but a desperate man with run around with her behind her bf's back.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Mavrick said:
They are all "other guys women", theres always some other guy orbiting in her life if she's half normal and decent looking, your particular set of morals youve decided to spew here only works if the guy happens to be out of touch with reality.You should probably cause more conflict. Maybe be really convinced of your own opinions a little more, too.( . )( . ) said:
Titties. You're taking this to serious. Yes I do have options but I want to explore all of them. If you find a 100$ bill on the grounds, you would probably take it even though it's "someone elses" and you have options to get money from elsewhere (lol lame comparison but it fits).
The difference now is that she might be pregnant with her BF. So I'm guessing that even though she's coming to my town in 2 weeks, I don't have a chance and frankly it doesn't bother me. I can f*uck another mans GF but I don't want to be blamed for the kid having a ****mark on his forehead when he gets born haha!
The difference now is that she might be pregnant with her BF. So I'm guessing that even though she's coming to my town in 2 weeks, I don't have a chance and frankly it doesn't bother me. I can f*uck another mans GF but I don't want to be blamed for the kid having a ****mark on his forehead when he gets born haha!