Buddha_Mind
Master Don Juan
Are you crazy?Darth said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Wow, women ARE really sneaky!
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Thats pathetic. A chick just being a chick in a sea of AFCdom and you go and rat her out to some loser who has no affiliation to you whatsoever? Nice going mate, I see the term "survival of the fittest" is totally lost on you.Brighty said:
"Guy code" give me a break. Did he share this "guy code" you speak of and knock you out?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
well my ex-wife seeked out a guy on the net and slept with him shortly before we married (far as i can tell) and i would have been just fine with the guy telling me, albeit as shocking as it might have been to find out what an easy lay my 'darling' was it would have saved me a costly wedding and wasting the next 2 years with someone who was not marriageable in the first place. and yes she repeated this after marrying too, perhaps if she had had to face some consequences of the first time then she may have changed? hard to say but I think eventually the truth will out and its for the better, and the sooner the better
It boils down to 2 things.
If you want to be the guy that goes for other guy's women when there is a world full of single ones out there, then don't tell him and continue to play with the wh0re. Otherwise, leave her alone, and let her bf know if you want. Then let him deal with it in what ever way he sees fit.
It's totally up to you what you want to do. A man who has otions will kick her to the curb, but a desperate man with run around with her behind her bf's back.
If you want to be the guy that goes for other guy's women when there is a world full of single ones out there, then don't tell him and continue to play with the wh0re. Otherwise, leave her alone, and let her bf know if you want. Then let him deal with it in what ever way he sees fit.
It's totally up to you what you want to do. A man who has otions will kick her to the curb, but a desperate man with run around with her behind her bf's back.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Mavrick said:
They are all "other guys women", theres always some other guy orbiting in her life if she's half normal and decent looking, your particular set of morals youve decided to spew here only works if the guy happens to be out of touch with reality.You should probably cause more conflict. Maybe be really convinced of your own opinions a little more, too.( . )( . ) said:
Titties. You're taking this to serious. Yes I do have options but I want to explore all of them. If you find a 100$ bill on the grounds, you would probably take it even though it's "someone elses" and you have options to get money from elsewhere (lol lame comparison but it fits).
The difference now is that she might be pregnant with her BF. So I'm guessing that even though she's coming to my town in 2 weeks, I don't have a chance and frankly it doesn't bother me. I can f*uck another mans GF but I don't want to be blamed for the kid having a ****mark on his forehead when he gets born haha!
The difference now is that she might be pregnant with her BF. So I'm guessing that even though she's coming to my town in 2 weeks, I don't have a chance and frankly it doesn't bother me. I can f*uck another mans GF but I don't want to be blamed for the kid having a ****mark on his forehead when he gets born haha!