Buddha_Mind
Master Don Juan
Are you crazy?Darth said:
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Wow, women ARE really sneaky!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Thats pathetic. A chick just being a chick in a sea of AFCdom and you go and rat her out to some loser who has no affiliation to you whatsoever? Nice going mate, I see the term "survival of the fittest" is totally lost on you.Brighty said:
"Guy code" give me a break. Did he share this "guy code" you speak of and knock you out?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
well my ex-wife seeked out a guy on the net and slept with him shortly before we married (far as i can tell) and i would have been just fine with the guy telling me, albeit as shocking as it might have been to find out what an easy lay my 'darling' was it would have saved me a costly wedding and wasting the next 2 years with someone who was not marriageable in the first place. and yes she repeated this after marrying too, perhaps if she had had to face some consequences of the first time then she may have changed? hard to say but I think eventually the truth will out and its for the better, and the sooner the better
It boils down to 2 things.
If you want to be the guy that goes for other guy's women when there is a world full of single ones out there, then don't tell him and continue to play with the wh0re. Otherwise, leave her alone, and let her bf know if you want. Then let him deal with it in what ever way he sees fit.
It's totally up to you what you want to do. A man who has otions will kick her to the curb, but a desperate man with run around with her behind her bf's back.
If you want to be the guy that goes for other guy's women when there is a world full of single ones out there, then don't tell him and continue to play with the wh0re. Otherwise, leave her alone, and let her bf know if you want. Then let him deal with it in what ever way he sees fit.
It's totally up to you what you want to do. A man who has otions will kick her to the curb, but a desperate man with run around with her behind her bf's back.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Mavrick said:
They are all "other guys women", theres always some other guy orbiting in her life if she's half normal and decent looking, your particular set of morals youve decided to spew here only works if the guy happens to be out of touch with reality.You should probably cause more conflict. Maybe be really convinced of your own opinions a little more, too.( . )( . ) said:
Titties. You're taking this to serious. Yes I do have options but I want to explore all of them. If you find a 100$ bill on the grounds, you would probably take it even though it's "someone elses" and you have options to get money from elsewhere (lol lame comparison but it fits).
The difference now is that she might be pregnant with her BF. So I'm guessing that even though she's coming to my town in 2 weeks, I don't have a chance and frankly it doesn't bother me. I can f*uck another mans GF but I don't want to be blamed for the kid having a ****mark on his forehead when he gets born haha!
The difference now is that she might be pregnant with her BF. So I'm guessing that even though she's coming to my town in 2 weeks, I don't have a chance and frankly it doesn't bother me. I can f*uck another mans GF but I don't want to be blamed for the kid having a ****mark on his forehead when he gets born haha!