"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Would you say this girl is a 9?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who are we trying to fool here?

This woman is a 9 with a .5 standard deviation up (9.5) or down (8.5) or beyond because of idiosyncratic attraction. All those who say you wouldn't be interested in her are either complete liars or keyboard jockeys. I think the point of the thread has been reached--enough said here.
 

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Howiestern said:
yeah she's close enough to a 9.

Its all about clothes, makeup, hair, and camera angles. some of you are so narrow minded and cant process the big picture.


This guy LOL

he is one of those who would settle for any girl. He probably sees an ugly 4 and calls her a 7.

the girl in the picture has a weird fkin face. A 6 at best
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think the scale is bullsh!t but I'll go ahead anyway.

CrashOverRide said:
I know looks are super subjective... but I think there are some universal physical qualities in women that a majority of men seem to be attracted to. Because I don't believe there is such a thing as a perfect 10, I'd say this girl is a 9. Thoughts?

http://regionalhotties.com/usa-hotties/midwest-models/ashley/
El Payaso pretty much said the same things I did :p

I've got four ratings - 0 (ugly), 1 (better than w@nking), 2 (would bang) and 3 (would girlfriend). On that scale, she's a 1. Why isn't she attractive? because she has virtually no @ss, hips or legs. Because of her lack of a feminine shape she doesn't look like a girl to me, she looks like a transgender teenage boy with a lot of applied cosmetics. I do prefer really big girls but if she at least had the shape of a grown woman I would be able to feel something for her. I'm not drawn to her face either.

I think this thread proves how diverse men's tastes are but I find all the guys insulting us for saying we don't personally find her desirable are a f*cking joke lol.

Your really looking at the likes of Kate Upton for someone no guy would rate under 9
What if I told you that girl could not be more than a 1 to me either?
 
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She is kind of cute, def not a 9....She is average 5 5/12, 6 on a good day. I like curvy women BTW
 

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that's why these rating scale threads are a waste, everybody will have a different number they choose. if she was naked in your bed i'm pretty sure nobody would kick her out of it, that's what you go on.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This is not a 9....you can walk into almost any strip club and find one on this caliber or better with a prettier face...she is porn star hot...a 9 is a true beauty....this girl is at best a 7.5 only because she has a nice body.....but for my personal standard because i don't get turned on by white girls...i would say a 7....give me a hot latina or Asian over this chick anyday. This chick's face is a little on the rough side...take away her makeup and she is a 6.
 

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Everyone has their type. For me, although sometimes I like the slut look lol I really like the simple "average" looking hot girls like these....

http://i.imgur.com/spUbgUs.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/xs5mVI4.jpg

It all depends how im feelin too. Last Saturday I was out with friends and i saw this geeky looking girl with an amazing body with glasses. I was like whoa... shes kinda hot lol.
 

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Some of the replies here still crack me up lol. I know looks are subjective, but I find it hard to believe there's guys who wouldn't bang this if they had an opportunity.
 

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CrashOverRide said:
I know looks are super subjective... but I think there are some universal physical qualities in women that a majority of men seem to be attracted to. Because I don't believe there is such a thing as a perfect 10, I'd say this girl is a 9. Thoughts?

http://regionalhotties.com/usa-hotties/midwest-models/ashley/
On the last pic with the red bra I would rate her a 9, because she got some cuteness there, but on the others about a 8 because of *****ness and the makeup already mentioned

Edit: WTF, I checked "Sarah V" on the right side, rated the highest with 9,73...her face is lacking everything compared to allm the other girls on the right side. And these photos are shopped to death.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AttackFormation said:
I've got four ratings - 0 (ugly), 1 (better than w@nking), 2 (would bang) and 3 (would girlfriend).
That's a pretty good scale, I think many of us use something similar internally without too much thinking about it but now you've brought it up I can see how some girls can easily be a 1, 2 and 3. I would put her closer to a 2 though based on her breasts.
 

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She's about a 6-7 to me. I like her body. Subjective, however.
 
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