sylvester the cat
Master Don Juan
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5 pages says otherwise...CrimsonPanther said:you cannot grade a HB based on some pics.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
5 pages says otherwise...CrimsonPanther said:you cannot grade a HB based on some pics.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Howiestern said:yeah she's close enough to a 9.
Its all about clothes, makeup, hair, and camera angles. some of you are so narrow minded and cant process the big picture.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
El Payaso pretty much said the same things I didCrashOverRide said:I know looks are super subjective... but I think there are some universal physical qualities in women that a majority of men seem to be attracted to. Because I don't believe there is such a thing as a perfect 10, I'd say this girl is a 9. Thoughts?
http://regionalhotties.com/usa-hotties/midwest-models/ashley/
What if I told you that girl could not be more than a 1 to me either?Your really looking at the likes of Kate Upton for someone no guy would rate under 9
Very nice!MidnightCity said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
On the last pic with the red bra I would rate her a 9, because she got some cuteness there, but on the others about a 8 because of *****ness and the makeup already mentionedCrashOverRide said:I know looks are super subjective... but I think there are some universal physical qualities in women that a majority of men seem to be attracted to. Because I don't believe there is such a thing as a perfect 10, I'd say this girl is a 9. Thoughts?
http://regionalhotties.com/usa-hotties/midwest-models/ashley/
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That's a pretty good scale, I think many of us use something similar internally without too much thinking about it but now you've brought it up I can see how some girls can easily be a 1, 2 and 3. I would put her closer to a 2 though based on her breasts.AttackFormation said:I've got four ratings - 0 (ugly), 1 (better than w@nking), 2 (would bang) and 3 (would girlfriend).