"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Would you say this girl is a 9?

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BTW, on the OP's link, I'd take "Anna K" out of all of them. Very cute face with what looks like a pretty nice body. She'd be my #1 pick.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Malice that girl is cute, half her face covered, but i'll take your word for it lol
 

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TheGambino said:
a 5, way too skinny for me, no chance I would talk to her.

I like fat ass round latinas
:up: :up: :up: :up: :up:

I still think a 5 is too much. Probably a 4. She just looks like such a scuzzie to me. Fake t!ts, bony waist, no meat on her thighs, smashed face etc.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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4north1side2 said:
Shes alright, not my type.
Mine, either. I would take the OP chick any day over her. Her looks and body type is what I'm into. Don't care for curves or big boobs myself.

Which is why I've never put much creedence in the number scale. Its so varied depending on individual taste it's ridiculous.
 

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This thread is hilarious!

There should be a thread where everyone posts what they consider a 9...

I understand that some people don't like the girl in the OP but to say she's a 5?

BTW if 10 is tops then 4-5 is average, am I right? ...Are some of you guys saying the AVERAGE girl in the street looks like this?

ROFL...
 

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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3agle 3yes said:
This thread is hilarious!

There should be a thread where everyone posts what they consider a 9...

I understand that some people don't like the girl in the OP but to say she's a 5?

BTW if 10 is tops then 4-5 is average, am I right? ...Are some of you guys saying the AVERAGE girl in the street looks like this?

ROFL...
I made one but perhaps I should've put it in the main forum since no one goes to anything else.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=212716

Anyways yeah a 4-5 is laughably ridiculous. Where the hell are you guys living where the average chick looks like this? Apparently everyone here is banging amazon goddesses :crazy:
 

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JoeMarron said:
I made one but perhaps I should've put it in the main forum since no one goes to anything else.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=212716

Anyways yeah a 4-5 is laughably ridiculous. Where the hell are you guys living where the average chick looks like this? Apparently everyone here is banging amazon goddesses :crazy:
London, England.

Where are you living where the average chick doesn't look like this???
 

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Everyone has their own ideals of 9s and 10s

Your really looking at the likes of Kate Upton for someone no guy would rate under 9
 

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What the hell!? I would love to see the guys who say she is a 5 or 6 puling anything better lmao
 

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3agle 3yes said:
This thread is hilarious!

There should be a thread where everyone posts what they consider a 9...

I understand that some people don't like the girl in the OP but to say she's a 5?

BTW if 10 is tops then 4-5 is average, am I right? ...Are some of you guys saying the AVERAGE girl in the street looks like this?

ROFL...
Lol exactly. Personally I'd do 6's or better but thats just me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you cannot grade a HB based on some pics. that said, nice sport, if she looks like the pic. also if she looks like 9 on pics, she is a 7-8 max in real life. if she has a perfect personality, she could also be a 10 :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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