sylvester the cat
Master Don Juan
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5 pages says otherwise...CrimsonPanther said:you cannot grade a HB based on some pics.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
5 pages says otherwise...CrimsonPanther said:you cannot grade a HB based on some pics.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Howiestern said:yeah she's close enough to a 9.
Its all about clothes, makeup, hair, and camera angles. some of you are so narrow minded and cant process the big picture.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
El Payaso pretty much said the same things I didCrashOverRide said:I know looks are super subjective... but I think there are some universal physical qualities in women that a majority of men seem to be attracted to. Because I don't believe there is such a thing as a perfect 10, I'd say this girl is a 9. Thoughts?
http://regionalhotties.com/usa-hotties/midwest-models/ashley/
What if I told you that girl could not be more than a 1 to me either?Your really looking at the likes of Kate Upton for someone no guy would rate under 9
Very nice!MidnightCity said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
On the last pic with the red bra I would rate her a 9, because she got some cuteness there, but on the others about a 8 because of *****ness and the makeup already mentionedCrashOverRide said:I know looks are super subjective... but I think there are some universal physical qualities in women that a majority of men seem to be attracted to. Because I don't believe there is such a thing as a perfect 10, I'd say this girl is a 9. Thoughts?
http://regionalhotties.com/usa-hotties/midwest-models/ashley/
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
That's a pretty good scale, I think many of us use something similar internally without too much thinking about it but now you've brought it up I can see how some girls can easily be a 1, 2 and 3. I would put her closer to a 2 though based on her breasts.AttackFormation said:I've got four ratings - 0 (ugly), 1 (better than w@nking), 2 (would bang) and 3 (would girlfriend).