"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Would you say this girl is a 9?

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BTW, on the OP's link, I'd take "Anna K" out of all of them. Very cute face with what looks like a pretty nice body. She'd be my #1 pick.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Malice that girl is cute, half her face covered, but i'll take your word for it lol
 
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TheGambino said:
a 5, way too skinny for me, no chance I would talk to her.

I like fat ass round latinas
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I still think a 5 is too much. Probably a 4. She just looks like such a scuzzie to me. Fake t!ts, bony waist, no meat on her thighs, smashed face etc.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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4north1side2 said:
Shes alright, not my type.
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Mine, either. I would take the OP chick any day over her. Her looks and body type is what I'm into. Don't care for curves or big boobs myself.

Which is why I've never put much creedence in the number scale. Its so varied depending on individual taste it's ridiculous.
 
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This thread is hilarious!

There should be a thread where everyone posts what they consider a 9...

I understand that some people don't like the girl in the OP but to say she's a 5?

BTW if 10 is tops then 4-5 is average, am I right? ...Are some of you guys saying the AVERAGE girl in the street looks like this?

ROFL...
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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3agle 3yes said:
This thread is hilarious!

There should be a thread where everyone posts what they consider a 9...

I understand that some people don't like the girl in the OP but to say she's a 5?

BTW if 10 is tops then 4-5 is average, am I right? ...Are some of you guys saying the AVERAGE girl in the street looks like this?

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I made one but perhaps I should've put it in the main forum since no one goes to anything else.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=212716

Anyways yeah a 4-5 is laughably ridiculous. Where the hell are you guys living where the average chick looks like this? Apparently everyone here is banging amazon goddesses :crazy:
 
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JoeMarron said:
I made one but perhaps I should've put it in the main forum since no one goes to anything else.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=212716

Anyways yeah a 4-5 is laughably ridiculous. Where the hell are you guys living where the average chick looks like this? Apparently everyone here is banging amazon goddesses :crazy:
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London, England.

Where are you living where the average chick doesn't look like this???
 
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Everyone has their own ideals of 9s and 10s

Your really looking at the likes of Kate Upton for someone no guy would rate under 9
 
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What the hell!? I would love to see the guys who say she is a 5 or 6 puling anything better lmao
 
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3agle 3yes said:
This thread is hilarious!

There should be a thread where everyone posts what they consider a 9...

I understand that some people don't like the girl in the OP but to say she's a 5?

BTW if 10 is tops then 4-5 is average, am I right? ...Are some of you guys saying the AVERAGE girl in the street looks like this?

ROFL...
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Lol exactly. Personally I'd do 6's or better but thats just me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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you cannot grade a HB based on some pics. that said, nice sport, if she looks like the pic. also if she looks like 9 on pics, she is a 7-8 max in real life. if she has a perfect personality, she could also be a 10 :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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