"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Would you say this girl is a 9?

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BTW, on the OP's link, I'd take "Anna K" out of all of them. Very cute face with what looks like a pretty nice body. She'd be my #1 pick.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Malice that girl is cute, half her face covered, but i'll take your word for it lol
 
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TheGambino said:
a 5, way too skinny for me, no chance I would talk to her.

I like fat ass round latinas
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:up: :up: :up: :up: :up:

I still think a 5 is too much. Probably a 4. She just looks like such a scuzzie to me. Fake t!ts, bony waist, no meat on her thighs, smashed face etc.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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4north1side2 said:
Shes alright, not my type.
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Mine, either. I would take the OP chick any day over her. Her looks and body type is what I'm into. Don't care for curves or big boobs myself.

Which is why I've never put much creedence in the number scale. Its so varied depending on individual taste it's ridiculous.
 
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This thread is hilarious!

There should be a thread where everyone posts what they consider a 9...

I understand that some people don't like the girl in the OP but to say she's a 5?

BTW if 10 is tops then 4-5 is average, am I right? ...Are some of you guys saying the AVERAGE girl in the street looks like this?

ROFL...
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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3agle 3yes said:
This thread is hilarious!

There should be a thread where everyone posts what they consider a 9...

I understand that some people don't like the girl in the OP but to say she's a 5?

BTW if 10 is tops then 4-5 is average, am I right? ...Are some of you guys saying the AVERAGE girl in the street looks like this?

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I made one but perhaps I should've put it in the main forum since no one goes to anything else.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=212716

Anyways yeah a 4-5 is laughably ridiculous. Where the hell are you guys living where the average chick looks like this? Apparently everyone here is banging amazon goddesses :crazy:
 
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JoeMarron said:
I made one but perhaps I should've put it in the main forum since no one goes to anything else.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=212716

Anyways yeah a 4-5 is laughably ridiculous. Where the hell are you guys living where the average chick looks like this? Apparently everyone here is banging amazon goddesses :crazy:
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London, England.

Where are you living where the average chick doesn't look like this???
 
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Everyone has their own ideals of 9s and 10s

Your really looking at the likes of Kate Upton for someone no guy would rate under 9
 
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What the hell!? I would love to see the guys who say she is a 5 or 6 puling anything better lmao
 
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3agle 3yes said:
This thread is hilarious!

There should be a thread where everyone posts what they consider a 9...

I understand that some people don't like the girl in the OP but to say she's a 5?

BTW if 10 is tops then 4-5 is average, am I right? ...Are some of you guys saying the AVERAGE girl in the street looks like this?

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Lol exactly. Personally I'd do 6's or better but thats just me.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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you cannot grade a HB based on some pics. that said, nice sport, if she looks like the pic. also if she looks like 9 on pics, she is a 7-8 max in real life. if she has a perfect personality, she could also be a 10 :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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