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My Analysis : http://imgur.com/FjooqOBCrashOverRide said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
My Analysis : http://imgur.com/FjooqOBCrashOverRide said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Because he's promoting his site with a pointless thread....Lotus Effect said:The question that keeps revolving in my head is:
OP. Why do you wanna know? Are you going to f*ck her?
If that is not the case, than this thread is pointless. And I agree with Tictac!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hah...what the fvck. See this is why the number system is nothing but subjective bullsh!t. What does a 6 even mean to you? With the obesity rate over 50% we should all be able to agree that she's at least above average. I seriously doubt, especially with all the whiny threads that pop up on the regular, that most dudes here are banging chicks on her level. I'd like to see what you're 7s, 8s, and 9s are. As a matter of fact it would be interesting to see everyone's list. That would prove that there is no consensus on looks after a certain point. I'm sure we can all agree on who's bangable and who's not but after that it's all a matter of personal tastes.PeasantPlayer said:Average height for a women in America is 5'3. I like shorter to average sized women. I would say she is a solid 6. Attractive, but nothing special. Seen a lot of better looking girls then here. She is no where near a 9 or 8 if she is you need to get SOME standards. This is the type of chick most dudes probably banging on here in terms of looks
I agree, it's pretty ridiculous. I wonder how many guys gave this girl a low rating then beat off to her pics :crackup:JoeMarron said:Hah...what the fvck. See this is why the number system is nothing but subjective bullsh!t. What does a 6 even mean to you? With the obesity rate over 50% we should all be able to agree that she's at least above average. I seriously doubt, especially with all the whiny threads that pop up on the regular, that most dudes here are banging chicks on her level. I'd like to see what you're 7s, 8s, and 9s are. As a matter of fact it would be interesting to see everyone's list. That would prove that there is no consensus on looks after a certain point. I'm sure we can all agree on who's bangable and who's not but after that it's all a matter of personal tastes.
defensive much?Yewki said:I agree, it's pretty ridiculous. I wonder how many guys gave this girl a low rating then beat off to her pics :crackup:
If any dude met this girl in real life, and she was a decent person (as in not a b*tch), you'd either rate her a 7+ or I'd highly suspect you were gay. No, I'd be pretty sure you were gay. I understand there are differences in tastes, but give me a f*cking break.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
My thoughts too.betheman said:8 max, IRL 7
Very true, a lot of women out there genuinely think they're hot **** just because they have some fake but trademark qualities. Things like drawn eyebrows, duck lips, huge fake tits, overblown makeup. Trying to emulate some poorly conceived, stereotypical "hot babe" because they think that's what guys want... I've seen otherwise decent looking girls transform themselves into what looks to be some type of clown looking creature from someone's nightmare, and they legit think they look sexy. So delusional it's sad.Don_Dom said:When girls take care of themselves and keep it natural even the little flaws score points in my book. So many hot girls who have no idea.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
LoLYewki said:I've seen otherwise decent looking girls transform themselves into what looks to be some type of clown looking creature from someone's nightmare, and they legit think they look sexy. So delusional it's sad.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.