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My Analysis : http://imgur.com/FjooqOBCrashOverRide said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
My Analysis : http://imgur.com/FjooqOBCrashOverRide said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Because he's promoting his site with a pointless thread....Lotus Effect said:The question that keeps revolving in my head is:
OP. Why do you wanna know? Are you going to f*ck her?
If that is not the case, than this thread is pointless. And I agree with Tictac!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hah...what the fvck. See this is why the number system is nothing but subjective bullsh!t. What does a 6 even mean to you? With the obesity rate over 50% we should all be able to agree that she's at least above average. I seriously doubt, especially with all the whiny threads that pop up on the regular, that most dudes here are banging chicks on her level. I'd like to see what you're 7s, 8s, and 9s are. As a matter of fact it would be interesting to see everyone's list. That would prove that there is no consensus on looks after a certain point. I'm sure we can all agree on who's bangable and who's not but after that it's all a matter of personal tastes.PeasantPlayer said:Average height for a women in America is 5'3. I like shorter to average sized women. I would say she is a solid 6. Attractive, but nothing special. Seen a lot of better looking girls then here. She is no where near a 9 or 8 if she is you need to get SOME standards. This is the type of chick most dudes probably banging on here in terms of looks
I agree, it's pretty ridiculous. I wonder how many guys gave this girl a low rating then beat off to her pics :crackup:JoeMarron said:Hah...what the fvck. See this is why the number system is nothing but subjective bullsh!t. What does a 6 even mean to you? With the obesity rate over 50% we should all be able to agree that she's at least above average. I seriously doubt, especially with all the whiny threads that pop up on the regular, that most dudes here are banging chicks on her level. I'd like to see what you're 7s, 8s, and 9s are. As a matter of fact it would be interesting to see everyone's list. That would prove that there is no consensus on looks after a certain point. I'm sure we can all agree on who's bangable and who's not but after that it's all a matter of personal tastes.
defensive much?Yewki said:I agree, it's pretty ridiculous. I wonder how many guys gave this girl a low rating then beat off to her pics :crackup:
If any dude met this girl in real life, and she was a decent person (as in not a b*tch), you'd either rate her a 7+ or I'd highly suspect you were gay. No, I'd be pretty sure you were gay. I understand there are differences in tastes, but give me a f*cking break.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
My thoughts too.betheman said:8 max, IRL 7
Very true, a lot of women out there genuinely think they're hot **** just because they have some fake but trademark qualities. Things like drawn eyebrows, duck lips, huge fake tits, overblown makeup. Trying to emulate some poorly conceived, stereotypical "hot babe" because they think that's what guys want... I've seen otherwise decent looking girls transform themselves into what looks to be some type of clown looking creature from someone's nightmare, and they legit think they look sexy. So delusional it's sad.Don_Dom said:When girls take care of themselves and keep it natural even the little flaws score points in my book. So many hot girls who have no idea.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
LoLYewki said:I've seen otherwise decent looking girls transform themselves into what looks to be some type of clown looking creature from someone's nightmare, and they legit think they look sexy. So delusional it's sad.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.