"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women @ work dont reply to my greetings. What would you do?

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And i notice them replying to other guys greetings and being all smiles and such so i guess the problem is really me.

I try to be civil and polite as i can, i respect their boundaries and don't even approach. Can it be that my looks turn these women off so bad that the best they can offer is cold stares, silence and indifference.

I avoid them as much as i can now, as well as most women, i got tired of this rigged game, unfortunately @work you need to courteous and polite as you share 40 hours per week with these women.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why the fvck are you trying to pick up women at work? Dying for a sexual harassment lawsuit?
 
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Well you are in the creep zone apparently.

Not sure if trolling or genuinely in need of great help considering all your messages.
 
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marmel75 said:
Why the fvck are you trying to pick up women at work? Dying for a sexual harassment lawsuit?
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you misreaded my post, i've never said i'm picking women @ work. what i said is that they don't reply to my acts of politeness like greeting "morning, good night, see you tomorrow...". they act cold and dont greet back which causes a bad atmosphere.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who Dares Win said:
Well you are in the creep zone apparently.

Not sure if trolling or genuinely in need of great help considering all your messages.
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how can i be in the creep zone if i dont act creepy around them or make any sexual advancements. the only explanation for being in the creep zone is looks.
 
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The name suits the OP. What did you do to better yourself today?? My guess.......Nothing.
 
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ZTIME said:
The name suits the OP. What did you do to better yourself today?? My guess.......Nothing.
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what does better myself has to do with the topic in question. but ok i'm all ears, please enlighten me with some tips.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Clueless2k16 said:
you misreaded my post, i've never said i'm picking women @ work. what i said is that they don't reply to my acts of politeness like greeting "morning, good night, see you tomorrow...". they act cold and dont greet back which causes a bad atmosphere.
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This atmosphere is only in your mind. Stop greeting them if you are that concerned about it.
 
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what does better myself has to do with the topic in question. but ok i'm all ears, please enlighten me with some tips.
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Nahh! We wasted 3 pages of trying to help you on your last thread having to do with the same topic. You seem to prefer to whine about how women treat you as opposed to getting off you a** and doing something about it.

Enlightenment is gifted to those who seek it. You won't find it on your couch.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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k thanks. at least is different from confidence
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You wrote on my profile that you've already done plastic surgery and that it didn't help. If you want to, you can send me a PM with pictures and I will give you my honest opinion. I'm a very honest, but not a mean person. So, don't be afraid. I just want to help other people. So, if you want to hear my opinion, send me a PM. And in case you don't want to, that's fine too.
 
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Trolling or not I'm pretty sure we re never going to see a field report. Maybe we need a giant banner on the front of SS to say its a self Improvement site.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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