Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Women @ work dont reply to my greetings. What would you do?

Clueless2k16

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And i notice them replying to other guys greetings and being all smiles and such so i guess the problem is really me.

I try to be civil and polite as i can, i respect their boundaries and don't even approach. Can it be that my looks turn these women off so bad that the best they can offer is cold stares, silence and indifference.

I avoid them as much as i can now, as well as most women, i got tired of this rigged game, unfortunately @work you need to courteous and polite as you share 40 hours per week with these women.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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marmel75

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Why the fvck are you trying to pick up women at work? Dying for a sexual harassment lawsuit?
 

Who Dares Win

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Well you are in the creep zone apparently.

Not sure if trolling or genuinely in need of great help considering all your messages.
 

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Why the fvck are you trying to pick up women at work? Dying for a sexual harassment lawsuit?
you misreaded my post, i've never said i'm picking women @ work. what i said is that they don't reply to my acts of politeness like greeting "morning, good night, see you tomorrow...". they act cold and dont greet back which causes a bad atmosphere.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Clueless2k16

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Well you are in the creep zone apparently.

Not sure if trolling or genuinely in need of great help considering all your messages.
how can i be in the creep zone if i dont act creepy around them or make any sexual advancements. the only explanation for being in the creep zone is looks.
 

ZTIME

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The name suits the OP. What did you do to better yourself today?? My guess.......Nothing.
 

Clueless2k16

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The name suits the OP. What did you do to better yourself today?? My guess.......Nothing.
what does better myself has to do with the topic in question. but ok i'm all ears, please enlighten me with some tips.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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marmel75

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you misreaded my post, i've never said i'm picking women @ work. what i said is that they don't reply to my acts of politeness like greeting "morning, good night, see you tomorrow...". they act cold and dont greet back which causes a bad atmosphere.
This atmosphere is only in your mind. Stop greeting them if you are that concerned about it.
 

ZTIME

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what does better myself has to do with the topic in question. but ok i'm all ears, please enlighten me with some tips.
Nahh! We wasted 3 pages of trying to help you on your last thread having to do with the same topic. You seem to prefer to whine about how women treat you as opposed to getting off you a** and doing something about it.

Enlightenment is gifted to those who seek it. You won't find it on your couch.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DiegoSantori

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k thanks. at least is different from confidence
You wrote on my profile that you've already done plastic surgery and that it didn't help. If you want to, you can send me a PM with pictures and I will give you my honest opinion. I'm a very honest, but not a mean person. So, don't be afraid. I just want to help other people. So, if you want to hear my opinion, send me a PM. And in case you don't want to, that's fine too.
 

ubercat

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Trolling or not I'm pretty sure we re never going to see a field report. Maybe we need a giant banner on the front of SS to say its a self Improvement site.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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