"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Women @ work dont reply to my greetings. What would you do?

Clueless2k16

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And i notice them replying to other guys greetings and being all smiles and such so i guess the problem is really me.

I try to be civil and polite as i can, i respect their boundaries and don't even approach. Can it be that my looks turn these women off so bad that the best they can offer is cold stares, silence and indifference.

I avoid them as much as i can now, as well as most women, i got tired of this rigged game, unfortunately @work you need to courteous and polite as you share 40 hours per week with these women.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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marmel75

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Why the fvck are you trying to pick up women at work? Dying for a sexual harassment lawsuit?
 

Who Dares Win

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Well you are in the creep zone apparently.

Not sure if trolling or genuinely in need of great help considering all your messages.
 

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Why the fvck are you trying to pick up women at work? Dying for a sexual harassment lawsuit?
you misreaded my post, i've never said i'm picking women @ work. what i said is that they don't reply to my acts of politeness like greeting "morning, good night, see you tomorrow...". they act cold and dont greet back which causes a bad atmosphere.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Clueless2k16

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Well you are in the creep zone apparently.

Not sure if trolling or genuinely in need of great help considering all your messages.
how can i be in the creep zone if i dont act creepy around them or make any sexual advancements. the only explanation for being in the creep zone is looks.
 

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The name suits the OP. What did you do to better yourself today?? My guess.......Nothing.
 

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The name suits the OP. What did you do to better yourself today?? My guess.......Nothing.
what does better myself has to do with the topic in question. but ok i'm all ears, please enlighten me with some tips.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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marmel75

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you misreaded my post, i've never said i'm picking women @ work. what i said is that they don't reply to my acts of politeness like greeting "morning, good night, see you tomorrow...". they act cold and dont greet back which causes a bad atmosphere.
This atmosphere is only in your mind. Stop greeting them if you are that concerned about it.
 

ZTIME

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what does better myself has to do with the topic in question. but ok i'm all ears, please enlighten me with some tips.
Nahh! We wasted 3 pages of trying to help you on your last thread having to do with the same topic. You seem to prefer to whine about how women treat you as opposed to getting off you a** and doing something about it.

Enlightenment is gifted to those who seek it. You won't find it on your couch.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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k thanks. at least is different from confidence
You wrote on my profile that you've already done plastic surgery and that it didn't help. If you want to, you can send me a PM with pictures and I will give you my honest opinion. I'm a very honest, but not a mean person. So, don't be afraid. I just want to help other people. So, if you want to hear my opinion, send me a PM. And in case you don't want to, that's fine too.
 

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Trolling or not I'm pretty sure we re never going to see a field report. Maybe we need a giant banner on the front of SS to say its a self Improvement site.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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