TheAsianLoverReturns
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Women LIE in order to maintain POWER
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
DonGorgon
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humans lie to maintain power!!!! women already have the power due to possessing vaginas . they are so powerful that they dwell in alternat realities supported by lies to everyone including themselves !!! women have no reason to tell the truth at all ... If you get mad at her she can just go f one of the 50 other men that are begging her to F
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TheAsianLoverReturns
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Exactly. That's why I have no problem lying to women...
We got some captain save a hos that think God would burn to them a cinder if they lied to a woman.
We got some captain save a hos that think God would burn to them a cinder if they lied to a woman.
I try not to lie when I can because I have an absolute **** memory for such things, and nothing is more embarrassing for me than being found to be a fraud. Watched you video, liked how you talked about defending yourself and your free will. Interesting take, will remember it.TheAsianLoverReturns said:
Semi-related.....how do you react when a women doesn't believe your tale? Poker face or something else?
Example:
HB8: What do you do for a living (a.k.a what's your income level?)
Iron: I'm my own boss. I do a lot of financial consulting for businesses and investors.
HB8: Ya sure....you're full of it.
Iron: :nervous:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DonGorgon
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"Women prefer an exciting lie over the boring truth"joe henny said:
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Zarky, your sig go hard (tight!!) and I will remeber it also if I even feel down on myself. Real TalkZarky said:
5string
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This just blows my mind. Some of you guys think it's perfectly fine to lie to women just because they lie to you? WTF is that! A real man does not lie, whether it's with women or your golden retriever. Tell the fVckin truth fellas. If somebody can't handle the truth, so be it. At least you have maintained your dignity and not lowered yourself to the level of others who are not worth your time to begin with.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
TheAsianLoverReturns
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Thanks bro. I see the captain save a hos are jumping on the video.joe henny said:
"A real man doesn't lie to women"
Like I'm going to accept the definition of a real man from a weak symping ass p*ssy pandering punk.
TheAsianLoverReturns
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I've never had that happen. If you say it with confidence, she will accept anything you say.Iron said:
Her: Are you just looking for sex?
Me: No baby. I'm looking for a genuine connection, a relationship with meaning.
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Doesn't every man and woman lie? Especially in relationships. The truth will set you free, but a lie can be super effective too.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
PapiChulo
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If you do it right, there is no need to lie.
jophil28
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This ^5string said:
Allowing women's behavior to shape and mold your own is beyond weak.
TheAsianLoverReturns
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Again, who are you to define the standards of bravery and cowardice.
Hahaha. It's hilarious how you dare to define those standards to me.
Hahaha. It's hilarious how you dare to define those standards to me.
Hidden-Hand
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There is no-thing wrong with lieing, period. Whither its to Women, Men, Dogs, etc. Lieing is a nessassary component to Power, which is why all political leaders throughout hisstory have lied to their peoples about somethings.
Lies can be very useful if used at the right time and in the right situation (Like anything else, be it kindness, genarosity, stealing, and even killing--Dont beelive me? I bet a CIA Field Officer would prove me right.) I would know, lies have gotten me out of many jams. This world is very cold, your ideal fairy tale world of love, peace and harmony does not exist and has never existed. There has always been lies, deciet, murdar, War, ect through all lof history.
Good and Evil are control mechanisms, so get with the programm and bee your oawn leeder.
GJ Theasianlover on not letting anyone define your reality but you.
---Lucifer
Lies can be very useful if used at the right time and in the right situation (Like anything else, be it kindness, genarosity, stealing, and even killing--Dont beelive me? I bet a CIA Field Officer would prove me right.) I would know, lies have gotten me out of many jams. This world is very cold, your ideal fairy tale world of love, peace and harmony does not exist and has never existed. There has always been lies, deciet, murdar, War, ect through all lof history.
Good and Evil are control mechanisms, so get with the programm and bee your oawn leeder.
GJ Theasianlover on not letting anyone define your reality but you.
---Lucifer
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.