TheAsianLoverReturns
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You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Good vid boxer, but you know the clowns on this site are going to be upset at the ideal of lying to a woman.TheAsianLoverReturns said:Exactly. That's why I have no problem lying to women...
We got some captain save a hos that think God would burn to them a cinder if they lied to a woman.
I try not to lie when I can because I have an absolute **** memory for such things, and nothing is more embarrassing for me than being found to be a fraud. Watched you video, liked how you talked about defending yourself and your free will. Interesting take, will remember it.TheAsianLoverReturns said:Exactly. That's why I have no problem lying to women...
We got some captain save a hos that think God would burn to them a cinder if they lied to a woman.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"Women prefer an exciting lie over the boring truth"joe henny said:Good vid boxer, but you know the clowns on this site are going to be upset at the ideal of lying to a woman.
Zarky, your sig go hard (tight!!) and I will remeber it also if I even feel down on myself. Real TalkZarky said:Because all women are exactly the same right? Read my sig, take it to heart.
True.TheAsianLoverReturns said:Women LIE in order to maintain POWER
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwjJWoW5DHk
That's why I have no problem withholding respect from both you and womenTheAsianLoverReturns said:Exactly. That's why I have no problem lying to women...
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Thanks bro. I see the captain save a hos are jumping on the video.joe henny said:Good vid boxer, but you know the clowns on this site are going to be upset at the ideal of lying to a woman.
I've never had that happen. If you say it with confidence, she will accept anything you say.Iron said:I try not to lie when I can because I have an absolute **** memory for such things, and nothing is more embarrassing for me than being found to be a fraud. Watched you video, liked how you talked about defending yourself and your free will. Interesting take, will remember it.
Semi-related.....how do you react when a women doesn't believe your tale? Poker face or something else?
Example:
HB8: What do you do for a living (a.k.a what's your income level?)
Iron: I'm my own boss. I do a lot of financial consulting for businesses and investors.
HB8: Ya sure....you're full of it.
Iron: :nervous:
There isn't any reason for any of us to take you seriously eitherTheAsianLoverReturns said:Thanks bro. I see the captain save a hos are jumping on the video.
"A real man doesn't lie to women"
Like I'm going to accept the definition of a real man from a weak symping ass p*ssy pandering punk.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This ^5string said:This just blows my mind. Some of you guys think it's perfectly fine to lie to women just because they lie to you? WTF is that! A real man does not lie, whether it's with women or your golden retriever. Tell the fVckin truth fellas. If somebody can't handle the truth, so be it. At least you have maintained your dignity and not lowered yourself to the level of others who are not worth your time to begin with.
truth5string said:This just blows my mind. Some of you guys think it's perfectly fine to lie to women just because they lie to you? WTF is that! A real man does not lie, whether it's with women or your golden retriever. Tell the fVckin truth fellas. If somebody can't handle the truth, so be it. At least you have maintained your dignity and not lowered yourself to the level of others who are not worth your time to begin with.
truthjophil28 said:This ^
Allowing women's behavior to shape and mold your own is beyond weak.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.