TheAsianLoverReturns
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Good vid boxer, but you know the clowns on this site are going to be upset at the ideal of lying to a woman.TheAsianLoverReturns said:Exactly. That's why I have no problem lying to women...
We got some captain save a hos that think God would burn to them a cinder if they lied to a woman.
I try not to lie when I can because I have an absolute **** memory for such things, and nothing is more embarrassing for me than being found to be a fraud. Watched you video, liked how you talked about defending yourself and your free will. Interesting take, will remember it.TheAsianLoverReturns said:Exactly. That's why I have no problem lying to women...
We got some captain save a hos that think God would burn to them a cinder if they lied to a woman.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"Women prefer an exciting lie over the boring truth"joe henny said:Good vid boxer, but you know the clowns on this site are going to be upset at the ideal of lying to a woman.
Zarky, your sig go hard (tight!!) and I will remeber it also if I even feel down on myself. Real TalkZarky said:Because all women are exactly the same right? Read my sig, take it to heart.
True.TheAsianLoverReturns said:Women LIE in order to maintain POWER
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwjJWoW5DHk
That's why I have no problem withholding respect from both you and womenTheAsianLoverReturns said:Exactly. That's why I have no problem lying to women...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Thanks bro. I see the captain save a hos are jumping on the video.joe henny said:Good vid boxer, but you know the clowns on this site are going to be upset at the ideal of lying to a woman.
I've never had that happen. If you say it with confidence, she will accept anything you say.Iron said:I try not to lie when I can because I have an absolute **** memory for such things, and nothing is more embarrassing for me than being found to be a fraud. Watched you video, liked how you talked about defending yourself and your free will. Interesting take, will remember it.
Semi-related.....how do you react when a women doesn't believe your tale? Poker face or something else?
Example:
HB8: What do you do for a living (a.k.a what's your income level?)
Iron: I'm my own boss. I do a lot of financial consulting for businesses and investors.
HB8: Ya sure....you're full of it.
Iron: :nervous:
There isn't any reason for any of us to take you seriously eitherTheAsianLoverReturns said:Thanks bro. I see the captain save a hos are jumping on the video.
"A real man doesn't lie to women"
Like I'm going to accept the definition of a real man from a weak symping ass p*ssy pandering punk.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This ^5string said:This just blows my mind. Some of you guys think it's perfectly fine to lie to women just because they lie to you? WTF is that! A real man does not lie, whether it's with women or your golden retriever. Tell the fVckin truth fellas. If somebody can't handle the truth, so be it. At least you have maintained your dignity and not lowered yourself to the level of others who are not worth your time to begin with.
truth5string said:This just blows my mind. Some of you guys think it's perfectly fine to lie to women just because they lie to you? WTF is that! A real man does not lie, whether it's with women or your golden retriever. Tell the fVckin truth fellas. If somebody can't handle the truth, so be it. At least you have maintained your dignity and not lowered yourself to the level of others who are not worth your time to begin with.
truthjophil28 said:This ^
Allowing women's behavior to shape and mold your own is beyond weak.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.