TheAsianLoverReturns
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Good vid boxer, but you know the clowns on this site are going to be upset at the ideal of lying to a woman.TheAsianLoverReturns said:Exactly. That's why I have no problem lying to women...
We got some captain save a hos that think God would burn to them a cinder if they lied to a woman.
I try not to lie when I can because I have an absolute **** memory for such things, and nothing is more embarrassing for me than being found to be a fraud. Watched you video, liked how you talked about defending yourself and your free will. Interesting take, will remember it.TheAsianLoverReturns said:Exactly. That's why I have no problem lying to women...
We got some captain save a hos that think God would burn to them a cinder if they lied to a woman.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
"Women prefer an exciting lie over the boring truth"joe henny said:Good vid boxer, but you know the clowns on this site are going to be upset at the ideal of lying to a woman.
Zarky, your sig go hard (tight!!) and I will remeber it also if I even feel down on myself. Real TalkZarky said:Because all women are exactly the same right? Read my sig, take it to heart.
True.TheAsianLoverReturns said:Women LIE in order to maintain POWER
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwjJWoW5DHk
That's why I have no problem withholding respect from both you and womenTheAsianLoverReturns said:Exactly. That's why I have no problem lying to women...
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Thanks bro. I see the captain save a hos are jumping on the video.joe henny said:Good vid boxer, but you know the clowns on this site are going to be upset at the ideal of lying to a woman.
I've never had that happen. If you say it with confidence, she will accept anything you say.Iron said:I try not to lie when I can because I have an absolute **** memory for such things, and nothing is more embarrassing for me than being found to be a fraud. Watched you video, liked how you talked about defending yourself and your free will. Interesting take, will remember it.
Semi-related.....how do you react when a women doesn't believe your tale? Poker face or something else?
Example:
HB8: What do you do for a living (a.k.a what's your income level?)
Iron: I'm my own boss. I do a lot of financial consulting for businesses and investors.
HB8: Ya sure....you're full of it.
Iron: :nervous:
There isn't any reason for any of us to take you seriously eitherTheAsianLoverReturns said:Thanks bro. I see the captain save a hos are jumping on the video.
"A real man doesn't lie to women"
Like I'm going to accept the definition of a real man from a weak symping ass p*ssy pandering punk.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
This ^5string said:This just blows my mind. Some of you guys think it's perfectly fine to lie to women just because they lie to you? WTF is that! A real man does not lie, whether it's with women or your golden retriever. Tell the fVckin truth fellas. If somebody can't handle the truth, so be it. At least you have maintained your dignity and not lowered yourself to the level of others who are not worth your time to begin with.
truth5string said:This just blows my mind. Some of you guys think it's perfectly fine to lie to women just because they lie to you? WTF is that! A real man does not lie, whether it's with women or your golden retriever. Tell the fVckin truth fellas. If somebody can't handle the truth, so be it. At least you have maintained your dignity and not lowered yourself to the level of others who are not worth your time to begin with.
truthjophil28 said:This ^
Allowing women's behavior to shape and mold your own is beyond weak.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.